"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do about a girl thats with her friends ?

ashman1

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Hello, im new to this forum, and to this site . . .

i have had absolutely no success with women , and this is one of the most
frequent problems that i run into . . .

when you see a girl you want to talk to and shes with a group of her friends
( could be some male friends, but female freinds are worse ! ) and you go over to talk to her and at everything you say , her friends tear you apart !
they heckel and blow up your spot at every turn ! - what can i do ?

and what is the secret of talking to girls in a religous setting ? especially the more conservitave religons , it seems like the moment you mention going out or getting together they start to run like scared deer ! - how do i overcome these problems ? - it's starting to get frustrating and i need help any advice i could get would be great - thnx :cry:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rhoto

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ashman1 said:
Hello, im new to this forum, and to this site . . .

i have had absolutely no success with women , and this is one of the most
frequent problems that i run into . . .

when you see a girl you want to talk to and shes with a group of her friends
( could be some male friends, but female freinds are worse ! ) and you go over to talk to her and at everything you say , her friends tear you apart !
they heckel and blow up your spot at every turn ! - what can i do ?

and what is the secret of talking to girls in a religous setting ? especially the more conservitave religons , it seems like the moment you mention going out or getting together they start to run like scared deer ! - how do i overcome these problems ? - it's starting to get frustrating and i need help any advice i could get would be great - thnx :cry:

There are a lot of things you can do, but the FIRST thing you should do is read the DJ Bible.

Its available at the bottom of the page.
 

Monsieur

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ashman1 said:
and what is the secret of talking to girls in a religous setting ? especially the more conservitave religons , it seems like the moment you mention going out or getting together they start to run like scared deer ! - how do i overcome these problems ? - it's starting to get frustrating and i need help any advice i could get would be great - thnx :cry:
You mean like at church, for example?

One good leeway is to ask her if you could pray for her for something. That's usually a good lead-in for conversations, which should lead to an exchange in numbers, which should lead to hanging out outside of church.

But, keep in mind if you meet a chick at a religious setting things may move slower than you'd like them to. That's only a maybe, as there are many exceptions.

As for friends, bring some friends of your own.
 
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