"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do about a girl thats with her friends ?

ashman1

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Hello, im new to this forum, and to this site . . .

i have had absolutely no success with women , and this is one of the most
frequent problems that i run into . . .

when you see a girl you want to talk to and shes with a group of her friends
( could be some male friends, but female freinds are worse ! ) and you go over to talk to her and at everything you say , her friends tear you apart !
they heckel and blow up your spot at every turn ! - what can i do ?

and what is the secret of talking to girls in a religous setting ? especially the more conservitave religons , it seems like the moment you mention going out or getting together they start to run like scared deer ! - how do i overcome these problems ? - it's starting to get frustrating and i need help any advice i could get would be great - thnx :cry:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rhoto

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ashman1 said:
Hello, im new to this forum, and to this site . . .

i have had absolutely no success with women , and this is one of the most
frequent problems that i run into . . .

when you see a girl you want to talk to and shes with a group of her friends
( could be some male friends, but female freinds are worse ! ) and you go over to talk to her and at everything you say , her friends tear you apart !
they heckel and blow up your spot at every turn ! - what can i do ?

and what is the secret of talking to girls in a religous setting ? especially the more conservitave religons , it seems like the moment you mention going out or getting together they start to run like scared deer ! - how do i overcome these problems ? - it's starting to get frustrating and i need help any advice i could get would be great - thnx :cry:

There are a lot of things you can do, but the FIRST thing you should do is read the DJ Bible.

Its available at the bottom of the page.
 

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ashman1 said:
and what is the secret of talking to girls in a religous setting ? especially the more conservitave religons , it seems like the moment you mention going out or getting together they start to run like scared deer ! - how do i overcome these problems ? - it's starting to get frustrating and i need help any advice i could get would be great - thnx :cry:
You mean like at church, for example?

One good leeway is to ask her if you could pray for her for something. That's usually a good lead-in for conversations, which should lead to an exchange in numbers, which should lead to hanging out outside of church.

But, keep in mind if you meet a chick at a religious setting things may move slower than you'd like them to. That's only a maybe, as there are many exceptions.

As for friends, bring some friends of your own.
 
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