"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What things in modern society to you are bull****?

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For me:

- Politics (well yeah, societies need structure but it's scummy as a practice)
- Fashion
- but the big one for me is psychiatry. It's a pseudo-science, based on social regulation and other outdated notions (nobody really regulates what I do).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh yeah? But politics and fashion and psychiatry is what you see on TV, you don't come with that in direct contact on a daily basis, thus you don't have a life. :D


I happen to have a life, and things that gross me out are
- rich people, they have cars, they have houses, they have businesses, they treat others like crap, they afraid of others, they like picking on little guy it makes them blossom like a-hole on a fag in a gay movie I watched on a dude's car DVD player in a car in front of me in traffic jam and not by my own choice.

- dumbass sheepozens (from word sheep and citizen), they your average joe shmoe, they can be black, white, jew, arab, jamaican, etc. They have rights, apparently, and they know about their right, and if someone in traffic or some other place, don't do something right, like changes lane, or turns their grocery cart in front of them in supermarket, they punish them and act like idiots.

- racially inclined people, like blacks, the Ku Klux Klan, arabs, jews, you name them, if they favor their own kind and don't give a damn about others, they piss me off. Russians piss me off for example.

- teenagers piss me off, I can't stand them, they love to f around with other people, it's like they are right, they can do whatever, and you better not even look at them wrong.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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namismybabe said:
For me:

- Politics (well yeah, societies need structure but it's scummy as a practice)
- Fashion
- but the big one for me is psychiatry. It's a pseudo-science, based on social regulation and other outdated notions (nobody really regulates what I do).
Shrinks serve a purpose. We need someone to dole out our meds. Preferably controlled substances.
 

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The following things are what I believe to be the biggest bullsh!t time wasters that people actually put faith in:

- The media
- Religion
- Politics (as they are today)
- Social status based on anything besides education
- The idea that charity fixes problems (sponsor a child today!)
- Celebrity worship
 

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Facebook, Twitter, instagram et al...

these things have taken over peoples lives and enslaved them
 

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Malice said:
Shrinks serve a purpose. We need someone to dole out our meds. Preferably controlled substances.
lol. which purpose is that? Pseudo-science? :crackup:
 

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Saying psychiatry is a psuedo-science is liking saying the earth is 3,000 years old or the sun revolves around earth. The mind is so powerful it can be the difference between success and failure, good and bad health, being the king of your social circle and being a sad lonely angry sap.

You may think of psychiatry as a man with a beard and suede patches on his jacket elbows sat in a comfy chair taking notes from a guy lying on a sofa but trust me it covers a wider range than you could envisage. Good psychiatrists help to structure a person's thought processes to benefit them rather than hinder them. They can lower stress, help performance (sports, work), aid relationships, teach to focus. The possibilities are endless.

You go to a gym to get fit, you may hire a personal trainer to help you out. Is that a psuedo-workout? You work your biceps to optimal performance, why not your mind? And getting professional help can only be a good thing.

Perhaps you have some deep-rooted issues you wish to cover up so bash the whole institution of psychiatry?

Anyway what pisses me off is religion and the whole politically correct, human rights bull that means many minority cultures can exploit a new country they choose to illegally populate (a big problem in England and America). I know there's a lot more to it but my view is either they adapt or they're out! Bizzle for P.M!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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namismybabe said:
lol. which purpose is that? Pseudo-science? :crackup:
Giving me adderall. That's the only purpose my shrink has. I had to game the b!tch though. Shrink the shrink. The stuff gives you an edge on life as long as you don't abuse.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
The following things are what I believe to be the biggest bullsh!t time wasters that people actually put faith in:

- The media
- Religion
- Politics (as they are today)
- Social status based on anything besides education
- The idea that charity fixes problems (sponsor a child today!)
- Celebrity worship

While I agree politics are fixed an 99% of the time sponsored by corporations, and I agree that charity is all but idiocy, and of course celebrity worship is dumb as hell. I disagree on religion and the social status.

Social status is that get's you things, what open doors for you. Education can only get you so far, but if you have money, or if you have mafia connections, or if you have law enforcement or judicial or political connections, that gets you places, it opens doors, and fixes your problems. Thus social status is what counts. Reputation goes along with it.

Religion is for your soul. Religion can keep you out of trouble and guide your destiny, provided you're not a fanatical christian, or islamist, or a jew zionist, in which cases religion does not preserve your soul, and you turn into a dirt bag.

Today we sleep with closed doors, but there was time that people left their doors open at night, and didn't lock their cars, because people around had God in them.


Now on psychiatry thing.

Seeing a psychiatrist is purely a western world culture. If you go see a shrink in Russia for example, that means you're toast. I think western psychiatry industry is a commercialized fad, it's a type of cool, like staying thin like super model, or working out and looking buff.
 

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1.The worshipping of celebrities
2.The who you know, rather then your hard work and talents
3.Greedy Ceos trying to make money off of everything
4.Women getting away with everything, while men take all the punishment
5.Thirsty men who worship women, who in turn make average or low class women think they are celebrities
6.People who don't need government assistance but use it anyway
 

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backseatjuan said:
Oh yeah? But politics and fashion and psychiatry is what you see on TV, you don't come with that in direct contact on a daily basis, thus you don't have a life. :D


I happen to have a life, and things that gross me out are
- rich people, they have cars, they have houses, they have businesses, they treat others like crap, they afraid of others, they like picking on little guy it makes them blossom like a-hole on a fag in a gay movie I watched on a dude's car DVD player in a car in front of me in traffic jam and not by my own choice.

- dumbass sheepozens (from word sheep and citizen), they your average joe shmoe, they can be black, white, jew, arab, jamaican, etc. They have rights, apparently, and they know about their right, and if someone in traffic or some other place, don't do something right, like changes lane, or turns their grocery cart in front of them in supermarket, they punish them and act like idiots.

- racially inclined people, like blacks, the Ku Klux Klan, arabs, jews, you name them, if they favor their own kind and don't give a damn about others, they piss me off. Russians piss me off for example.

- teenagers piss me off, I can't stand them, they love to f around with other people, it's like they are right, they can do whatever, and you better not even look at them wrong.
hmm.. ok, i live in a society of laws?

i assist a local political party?

but yeah, being braindead and only doing what the mass media/pop culture tells me is being "alpha" (as most here would say) right?

And yes, psychiatry is evil, that's common knowledge. It was invented in the 19th century to control society.

Also humans are tribal, get with it dude...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backseatjuan said:
While I agree politics are fixed an 99% of the time sponsored by corporations, and I agree that charity is all but idiocy, and of course celebrity worship is dumb as hell. I disagree on religion and the social status.

Social status is that get's you things, what open doors for you. Education can only get you so far, but if you have money, or if you have mafia connections, or if you have law enforcement or judicial or political connections, that gets you places, it opens doors, and fixes your problems. Thus social status is what counts. Reputation goes along with it.

Religion is for your soul. Religion can keep you out of trouble and guide your destiny, provided you're not a fanatical christian, or islamist, or a jew zionist, in which cases religion does not preserve your soul, and you turn into a dirt bag.

Today we sleep with closed doors, but there was time that people left their doors open at night, and didn't lock their cars, because people around had God in them.


Now on psychiatry thing.

Seeing a psychiatrist is purely a western world culture. If you go see a shrink in Russia for example, that means you're toast. I think western psychiatry industry is a commercialized fad, it's a type of cool, like staying thin like super model, or working out and looking buff.
I guess we just disagree on those things. To clarify.. I believe:

1. Social status should not be based on retarded things like race, last name, mafia connections, how many people you've killed or who you know.

2. Religion is simply false. You can't be a wise man if you believe in childish fairy tales.
 
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