"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What things in modern society to you are bull****?

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For me:

- Politics (well yeah, societies need structure but it's scummy as a practice)
- Fashion
- but the big one for me is psychiatry. It's a pseudo-science, based on social regulation and other outdated notions (nobody really regulates what I do).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh yeah? But politics and fashion and psychiatry is what you see on TV, you don't come with that in direct contact on a daily basis, thus you don't have a life. :D


I happen to have a life, and things that gross me out are
- rich people, they have cars, they have houses, they have businesses, they treat others like crap, they afraid of others, they like picking on little guy it makes them blossom like a-hole on a fag in a gay movie I watched on a dude's car DVD player in a car in front of me in traffic jam and not by my own choice.

- dumbass sheepozens (from word sheep and citizen), they your average joe shmoe, they can be black, white, jew, arab, jamaican, etc. They have rights, apparently, and they know about their right, and if someone in traffic or some other place, don't do something right, like changes lane, or turns their grocery cart in front of them in supermarket, they punish them and act like idiots.

- racially inclined people, like blacks, the Ku Klux Klan, arabs, jews, you name them, if they favor their own kind and don't give a damn about others, they piss me off. Russians piss me off for example.

- teenagers piss me off, I can't stand them, they love to f around with other people, it's like they are right, they can do whatever, and you better not even look at them wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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namismybabe said:
For me:

- Politics (well yeah, societies need structure but it's scummy as a practice)
- Fashion
- but the big one for me is psychiatry. It's a pseudo-science, based on social regulation and other outdated notions (nobody really regulates what I do).
Shrinks serve a purpose. We need someone to dole out our meds. Preferably controlled substances.
 

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The following things are what I believe to be the biggest bullsh!t time wasters that people actually put faith in:

- The media
- Religion
- Politics (as they are today)
- Social status based on anything besides education
- The idea that charity fixes problems (sponsor a child today!)
- Celebrity worship
 

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Facebook, Twitter, instagram et al...

these things have taken over peoples lives and enslaved them
 

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Malice said:
Shrinks serve a purpose. We need someone to dole out our meds. Preferably controlled substances.
lol. which purpose is that? Pseudo-science? :crackup:
 

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Saying psychiatry is a psuedo-science is liking saying the earth is 3,000 years old or the sun revolves around earth. The mind is so powerful it can be the difference between success and failure, good and bad health, being the king of your social circle and being a sad lonely angry sap.

You may think of psychiatry as a man with a beard and suede patches on his jacket elbows sat in a comfy chair taking notes from a guy lying on a sofa but trust me it covers a wider range than you could envisage. Good psychiatrists help to structure a person's thought processes to benefit them rather than hinder them. They can lower stress, help performance (sports, work), aid relationships, teach to focus. The possibilities are endless.

You go to a gym to get fit, you may hire a personal trainer to help you out. Is that a psuedo-workout? You work your biceps to optimal performance, why not your mind? And getting professional help can only be a good thing.

Perhaps you have some deep-rooted issues you wish to cover up so bash the whole institution of psychiatry?

Anyway what pisses me off is religion and the whole politically correct, human rights bull that means many minority cultures can exploit a new country they choose to illegally populate (a big problem in England and America). I know there's a lot more to it but my view is either they adapt or they're out! Bizzle for P.M!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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namismybabe said:
lol. which purpose is that? Pseudo-science? :crackup:
Giving me adderall. That's the only purpose my shrink has. I had to game the b!tch though. Shrink the shrink. The stuff gives you an edge on life as long as you don't abuse.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
The following things are what I believe to be the biggest bullsh!t time wasters that people actually put faith in:

- The media
- Religion
- Politics (as they are today)
- Social status based on anything besides education
- The idea that charity fixes problems (sponsor a child today!)
- Celebrity worship

While I agree politics are fixed an 99% of the time sponsored by corporations, and I agree that charity is all but idiocy, and of course celebrity worship is dumb as hell. I disagree on religion and the social status.

Social status is that get's you things, what open doors for you. Education can only get you so far, but if you have money, or if you have mafia connections, or if you have law enforcement or judicial or political connections, that gets you places, it opens doors, and fixes your problems. Thus social status is what counts. Reputation goes along with it.

Religion is for your soul. Religion can keep you out of trouble and guide your destiny, provided you're not a fanatical christian, or islamist, or a jew zionist, in which cases religion does not preserve your soul, and you turn into a dirt bag.

Today we sleep with closed doors, but there was time that people left their doors open at night, and didn't lock their cars, because people around had God in them.


Now on psychiatry thing.

Seeing a psychiatrist is purely a western world culture. If you go see a shrink in Russia for example, that means you're toast. I think western psychiatry industry is a commercialized fad, it's a type of cool, like staying thin like super model, or working out and looking buff.
 

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1.The worshipping of celebrities
2.The who you know, rather then your hard work and talents
3.Greedy Ceos trying to make money off of everything
4.Women getting away with everything, while men take all the punishment
5.Thirsty men who worship women, who in turn make average or low class women think they are celebrities
6.People who don't need government assistance but use it anyway
 

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backseatjuan said:
Oh yeah? But politics and fashion and psychiatry is what you see on TV, you don't come with that in direct contact on a daily basis, thus you don't have a life. :D


I happen to have a life, and things that gross me out are
- rich people, they have cars, they have houses, they have businesses, they treat others like crap, they afraid of others, they like picking on little guy it makes them blossom like a-hole on a fag in a gay movie I watched on a dude's car DVD player in a car in front of me in traffic jam and not by my own choice.

- dumbass sheepozens (from word sheep and citizen), they your average joe shmoe, they can be black, white, jew, arab, jamaican, etc. They have rights, apparently, and they know about their right, and if someone in traffic or some other place, don't do something right, like changes lane, or turns their grocery cart in front of them in supermarket, they punish them and act like idiots.

- racially inclined people, like blacks, the Ku Klux Klan, arabs, jews, you name them, if they favor their own kind and don't give a damn about others, they piss me off. Russians piss me off for example.

- teenagers piss me off, I can't stand them, they love to f around with other people, it's like they are right, they can do whatever, and you better not even look at them wrong.
hmm.. ok, i live in a society of laws?

i assist a local political party?

but yeah, being braindead and only doing what the mass media/pop culture tells me is being "alpha" (as most here would say) right?

And yes, psychiatry is evil, that's common knowledge. It was invented in the 19th century to control society.

Also humans are tribal, get with it dude...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backseatjuan said:
While I agree politics are fixed an 99% of the time sponsored by corporations, and I agree that charity is all but idiocy, and of course celebrity worship is dumb as hell. I disagree on religion and the social status.

Social status is that get's you things, what open doors for you. Education can only get you so far, but if you have money, or if you have mafia connections, or if you have law enforcement or judicial or political connections, that gets you places, it opens doors, and fixes your problems. Thus social status is what counts. Reputation goes along with it.

Religion is for your soul. Religion can keep you out of trouble and guide your destiny, provided you're not a fanatical christian, or islamist, or a jew zionist, in which cases religion does not preserve your soul, and you turn into a dirt bag.

Today we sleep with closed doors, but there was time that people left their doors open at night, and didn't lock their cars, because people around had God in them.


Now on psychiatry thing.

Seeing a psychiatrist is purely a western world culture. If you go see a shrink in Russia for example, that means you're toast. I think western psychiatry industry is a commercialized fad, it's a type of cool, like staying thin like super model, or working out and looking buff.
I guess we just disagree on those things. To clarify.. I believe:

1. Social status should not be based on retarded things like race, last name, mafia connections, how many people you've killed or who you know.

2. Religion is simply false. You can't be a wise man if you believe in childish fairy tales.
 
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