"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does it mean when a girl says, "It's all good if you still like me"?

I barely even talk or see her (since she's in college in another state).

Then she says, "Just to tell you know I'm gonna be comin' home in a week (staying for a couple of days), and I'm gonna be busy doin' my term paper--just to let you know".

I did a search and read the bible, yet I found nothing.

FYI, I'm dating a couple of girls on the side, but this just got my attention.

Any help in translating this crap would be appreciated!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by SevenOne9
What does it mean when a girl says, "It's all good if you still like me"?
Then she says, "Just to tell you know I'm gonna be comin' home in a week (staying for a couple of days), and I'm gonna be busy doin' my term paper--just to let you know".
It means:

While you're indecisive about making a move on me I'll be humping my roommate's kok. You know where to find me.
 

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In ********, this could mean one of many things...Since you didn't provide much information regarding you, this chick, your past 'relationship' with her, does she have a bf, etc...

Its all good if you still like me.

Womasese for: I get so much attention, I'm used to guys liking me. And since you're and AFC, its all good if you still like me because I need all the attention I can get. Hey, I'm comming to visit next week, how about you spend $100 on dinner for me and take me out shopping!


Or

******** for: Its been so long since I've seen you. Its all good if you still like me because I still like you, maybe not enough to be a bf..but, if you play your cards right, you can be my FB. I'm comming down next week from college...How about it big boy?

Honestly, you need to give a lil more information about this one...you can see how it can be read as either very promising or very sh*tty.
:eek:
 

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Thanks for the replies! Yeah, she does sound like an attention wh0re, lol!

She's a single southern baptist, FY--studyin' nursing and all her roomates are females.

Hehe, sorry for not providing the needed info (My internet has issues so I can't tell if my connection will be lost so I had to type quick).

I met her a couple of years ago; I asked her out and turned me down by givin' me the LJBF speech.

So I was cool with that, and moved on and went out w/other females that i've met through friends (but I was still AFC at the time).

Then I found this site and learned a whole lot. I did the C&F on her (just to practice) and she took it quite well.

Then she had to go out of state and she comes to town on her breaks.

Since then I've been gettin' girls here and totally forgot about her. she contacts me pretty much every week (through e-mail).

I kept being ambigious w/her and did the C&F through e-mail.

I guess she interpreted that I still liked her and so she gave me that "Its ok that you still like me" and mentioned like 3x (just to make sure) that she was comin' to town in a week.

So that's the whole story.
 

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punch her in the face next time she says that.....if afterwards she says i love you it was meant to be.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ignore this trick...she said it 3x to make sure you heard it?! F*ck her...have a big surprise ready for her when she comes back to town...guess what it is?

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

Don't call her, don't answer her calls, don't message her...

When 3 or 4 days go by AFTER she's came, answer one of her emails or messages with "Oh yea...you were down here last weekend uhh?? I totally forgot."

Say it with a "oh well"kind of tone and attitude, and watch her head spin! Nothing will knock her off her pedistal more than the fact that you forgot about her.
 
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