"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What the ****?

The Bat

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You'll only be a chump if you let her do the same thing to you again.

But hey you know what, I respect your decision. This isn't such a big deal to you, I'm sure. Like I said, this makes for a good story (a costly $40 though) by all means.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ProDJ26

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damn thats **** up but you can learn from this experience. **** so can I !!!!
 

AlanB

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The Bat said:
You'll only be a chump if you let her do the same thing to you again.
Not in my opinion. Maybe in exceptional circumstances, like say, she apologised and begged for forgiveness and made up for it by say, taking me out for an expensive dinner and then putting out big time.
 

iqqi

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AlanB said:
Too late for that; already ditched her and chucked her number.

I don't know how you guys could want to have anything more to do with someone who stole off you like that. Maybe if it had been a good friend who was on hard times and got a bit desperate something could be worked out but a woman I met a week ago, met up with and did a spot of shagging with?
Not a chance in hell. She can trot on and find some other chump who wants to buy the key to her knickers.

^^^ You're no fun.

:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Centaurion

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HAHAHA!

Sorry man, but this sh!t is too funny. The worst thing is that I've been there and done that. Just take it with a smile and move along. At least now you'll have a fun story to tell your kids.
 

AlanB

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Centaurion said:
HAHAHA!

Sorry man, but this sh!t is too funny. The worst thing is that I've been there and done that. Just take it with a smile and move along. At least now you'll have a fun story to tell your kids.
True. I was pissed off when I posted but then I was with some friends and I told them and we all had a chuckle over it.

At the end of the day - I could afford to lose the money so it was no big deal really.
 

Effington

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I'll play devil's advocate and say I always think I spent less than I really did, that's a pretty rash judgement to say she stole it.
 
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