"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What the **** is wrong?!?

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I always been a good DJ in the past few years... Never needed any help. Always had a chick on me. I was young, drunk, ****ed up on drugs. I was a total ******* (in my eyes).

I grew up, taught it was time to start my life the way it should, got into drug/alcohol rehabs. Started my new life, feelin' good, became a good person...

Things got different in the past year. I don't have anymore chicks on my side on long therms... So I started to read about seduction sciences for more than a year now but can't get things well.

I have passion for arts. I do airbrush(evolving money), lots of drawings (evolving money), I paint, I sing, I play guitar bass and keyboards.

I'm a 8.5-9/10. When I walk I get instant attraction. When I go talk to the ladies, they are seduced, I can see it with their body languages. First date, everything is going well. Than when we meet back on the internet or something just to chat they start to be cold and *****es so I treat them like *****es, pretend that I don't care and never see them again.

What could possibly lead them into acting like this?!? This scenario happened so many times...
My left arm is covered with tattooes and I have a huge neck tattoo. (nothing hardcore, just some traditional art and japenesses art) I taught that could possibly scare them because up here it's not that fashion like it use to be in the USA + the faq that I was in drug and alcohol rehab. I don't have any school diplomas, not even high school.

Are they trying to be rational and pretend I'm not enough good for em (wich is stupid) but according to the stereotype, girls are superficials.

ANYWAYS WTF IS WRONG AND WHAT CAN I DO OR CHANGE...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Than when we meet back on the internet or something just to chat they start to be cold and *****es so I treat them like *****es, pretend that I don't care and never see them again.
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Stop doing that, then.

Do not have an actual conversation unless it's in person. You need to use internet and phone ONLY to arrange the next face-to-face meeting. When you've arranged it, you dissappear until then. Stop smothering them. Instead, they should be wondering why you can't talk to them much. "Is he hiding a gf? Is he married? WTF?" Chicks love to be obsessed over this sh!t.
 
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stop with the internet ****. invite her over instead...or call her and talk for a little while.
 
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
No sarcasm, but have you ever considered that since you were constantly drunk/high that your perception of yourself and skills with women were horribly skewed? Not saying that's the case, but alcohol and drugs are infamous for f'ucking up your brain and distorting your perception and judgement.
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no because I could see the result as well when I was sober, I guess that liked it because it was "bad boy" or rockstar party machine (I used to play a lot of music live)



I'm gonna stop using the internet I guess you guys are right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls are always *****es over the internet (or atleast if not *****es, much more rude than they are in person), so don't even allow the opportunity to mess things up this way. It's almost like walking right into a trap which you could easily detour around by using the phone or arranging the next date in person.
 
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