"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What the **** is wrong?!?

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I always been a good DJ in the past few years... Never needed any help. Always had a chick on me. I was young, drunk, ****ed up on drugs. I was a total ******* (in my eyes).

I grew up, taught it was time to start my life the way it should, got into drug/alcohol rehabs. Started my new life, feelin' good, became a good person...

Things got different in the past year. I don't have anymore chicks on my side on long therms... So I started to read about seduction sciences for more than a year now but can't get things well.

I have passion for arts. I do airbrush(evolving money), lots of drawings (evolving money), I paint, I sing, I play guitar bass and keyboards.

I'm a 8.5-9/10. When I walk I get instant attraction. When I go talk to the ladies, they are seduced, I can see it with their body languages. First date, everything is going well. Than when we meet back on the internet or something just to chat they start to be cold and *****es so I treat them like *****es, pretend that I don't care and never see them again.

What could possibly lead them into acting like this?!? This scenario happened so many times...
My left arm is covered with tattooes and I have a huge neck tattoo. (nothing hardcore, just some traditional art and japenesses art) I taught that could possibly scare them because up here it's not that fashion like it use to be in the USA + the faq that I was in drug and alcohol rehab. I don't have any school diplomas, not even high school.

Are they trying to be rational and pretend I'm not enough good for em (wich is stupid) but according to the stereotype, girls are superficials.

ANYWAYS WTF IS WRONG AND WHAT CAN I DO OR CHANGE...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Than when we meet back on the internet or something just to chat they start to be cold and *****es so I treat them like *****es, pretend that I don't care and never see them again.
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Stop doing that, then.

Do not have an actual conversation unless it's in person. You need to use internet and phone ONLY to arrange the next face-to-face meeting. When you've arranged it, you dissappear until then. Stop smothering them. Instead, they should be wondering why you can't talk to them much. "Is he hiding a gf? Is he married? WTF?" Chicks love to be obsessed over this sh!t.
 
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stop with the internet ****. invite her over instead...or call her and talk for a little while.
 
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
No sarcasm, but have you ever considered that since you were constantly drunk/high that your perception of yourself and skills with women were horribly skewed? Not saying that's the case, but alcohol and drugs are infamous for f'ucking up your brain and distorting your perception and judgement.
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no because I could see the result as well when I was sober, I guess that liked it because it was "bad boy" or rockstar party machine (I used to play a lot of music live)



I'm gonna stop using the internet I guess you guys are right.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls are always *****es over the internet (or atleast if not *****es, much more rude than they are in person), so don't even allow the opportunity to mess things up this way. It's almost like walking right into a trap which you could easily detour around by using the phone or arranging the next date in person.
 
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