"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What the **** is this ****?

Crazy Asian

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I was on this forum a lonnng time ago.
Been beasting and improving ever since.
What the **** happened?
Every thread is someone *****ing about some problem or stupid pointless questions.
I remember this forum used to be sweet.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We do have the occasional sweet thread, but this one seems to be the same as the others... Someone moaning about something.
 

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occasional is the right word, this forum is so negative. Everyone on here is b1tching about some girl who isnt calling him or texting him back in 3 seconds. Does she like me?! ?!?!?!?!? The most common question recently.
 

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Yup most common answer is.... Probably not
Spin some plates
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i can't say i haven't done my fair share of moaning back when i just stared out. (you can look it up if you want) but lately this site is just icky.

so many guys think there problem needs sorting out. especially" with this stripper girl how do i save it. "

you don't buddy. you keep approaching until you find someone who is dtf.
 

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Forums tend to go through phases and stages.

So tell me, what are you guys doing to improve things here?
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Forums tend to go through phases and stages.

So tell me, what are you guys doing to improve things here?
What am I going to do? I'm going to encourage our lovely moderators to get a bit tougher on banning these trolls so that our forum looks like less of a joke on the rare occasions that I visit (you are a great poster, by the way).

There reaches a certain point when you can tell that a person is trolling a message board for their own amusement, and guys like gspshields2 and Toast123 are just taking a dump on the guys with real questions and issues.

It's like, I want to help the dude who just got dumped by his girlfriend of 2 years, but then I see some thread about "As an Israeli of African descent, American women suck!" and I roll my eyes and get the F off of this forum.

Forums do go in phases, this is true. Right now we're in a 35% troll phase. And we can either wait for the trolls to get girlfriends or graduate high school, or we can just nip it in the bud.
 

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I tend to agree with you, especially your parenthetical remark. ;)

But seriously, I do agree that the trolling rate has gone way up. We mods aren't given the right to ban people on our own. We have to submit the proposal in the mods section, make our case, and the list owner decides whether to ban or not.

I think the general way of doing business here has historically been to be a little slow to ban people unless they make a fairly serious transgression, in order to avoid being overly heavy-handed. It's easy for banning to get out of hand, and I have seen it on other forums.

Your points are very well-taken and I'll keep my eye out for those guys who are trolling for their own amusement, as you say. I appreciate the constructive criticism.
 
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