"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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driveon

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I'm 19. I only started reading up on dating a couple of months ago (deangelo, the ladder theory, no more mr nice guy, this site).

College started. I've been asking for e-mails and making small talk and I try to talk to as many girls as possible.

The second day of class, this asian girl whose an HB 7 or 8 tells me that I look familiar. I've never seen this girl before so I just told her maybe we were in another class together or something.

The fourth day of class, she sits by me and tells me that she saw me in math class. We make small talk. She's only been in this country for a year. Shes always smiling at me and looking over and stuff.

I asked for her e-mail and she gave it plus her phone number without my asking. Then later she asks for my number and puts it into her phone.

She's smart, well dressed, 5'7, very attractive. I don't understand why she's flirting and noticing me. I'm not anywhere near becoming a DJ.

Does anyone have any idea what the fack is going on? I don't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Austizzle

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INVITE HER OVER TO YOUR ROOM TO HANG OUT. Then proceed with heavy kino ---> make out session ---> sex. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. And if the bed is squeky, put the mattress on the floor.:D

Austin
 

penkitten

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dude
she doesnt know you arent a dj
heck she doesnt know what a dj is
all she knows is shes interested in you

why dont you call her up and meet up with her somewhere to hang out?
 

nishbuk

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Yeah man. Just casue your not a DJ doesn't mean that women aren't going to be interested in you!

I'm no DJ. There were plenty of girls in HS (When I was WBAFC) that wanted my **** in HS, but I would just say, "There's no way they like me", and move on.

Get out there! Invite her over, and make a move.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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driveon

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I'm really inexperienced so I'm worried that I'm going to screw up but it doesn't matter. The only way to learn is to practice and theres a million girls out there blah blah blah.

I feel like I'm taking a driving lesson in a ferari.
 

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Originally posted by driveon
I'm really inexperienced so I'm worried that I'm going to screw up but it doesn't matter. The only way to learn is to practice and theres a million girls out there blah blah blah.

I feel like I'm taking a driving lesson in a ferari.
There is your *FATAL* mistake, you worry too much, stop thinking about it and JUST DO IT. Do you really care what other people think of you? Once you let fear in, it will consume you then, you will live your life in fear, DO YOU REALLY WANT THAT!? I'm taking a wild guess that you're thinking no. ;)
 

scorpio king

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I dont see any problem here.

Dont you want the girl? Its like a sack of money suddenly appearing inside your room!!!
 
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