"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what the? help?

driveon

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I'm 19. I only started reading up on dating a couple of months ago (deangelo, the ladder theory, no more mr nice guy, this site).

College started. I've been asking for e-mails and making small talk and I try to talk to as many girls as possible.

The second day of class, this asian girl whose an HB 7 or 8 tells me that I look familiar. I've never seen this girl before so I just told her maybe we were in another class together or something.

The fourth day of class, she sits by me and tells me that she saw me in math class. We make small talk. She's only been in this country for a year. Shes always smiling at me and looking over and stuff.

I asked for her e-mail and she gave it plus her phone number without my asking. Then later she asks for my number and puts it into her phone.

She's smart, well dressed, 5'7, very attractive. I don't understand why she's flirting and noticing me. I'm not anywhere near becoming a DJ.

Does anyone have any idea what the fack is going on? I don't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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INVITE HER OVER TO YOUR ROOM TO HANG OUT. Then proceed with heavy kino ---> make out session ---> sex. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. And if the bed is squeky, put the mattress on the floor.:D

Austin
 

penkitten

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dude
she doesnt know you arent a dj
heck she doesnt know what a dj is
all she knows is shes interested in you

why dont you call her up and meet up with her somewhere to hang out?
 

nishbuk

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Yeah man. Just casue your not a DJ doesn't mean that women aren't going to be interested in you!

I'm no DJ. There were plenty of girls in HS (When I was WBAFC) that wanted my **** in HS, but I would just say, "There's no way they like me", and move on.

Get out there! Invite her over, and make a move.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

driveon

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I'm really inexperienced so I'm worried that I'm going to screw up but it doesn't matter. The only way to learn is to practice and theres a million girls out there blah blah blah.

I feel like I'm taking a driving lesson in a ferari.
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by driveon
I'm really inexperienced so I'm worried that I'm going to screw up but it doesn't matter. The only way to learn is to practice and theres a million girls out there blah blah blah.

I feel like I'm taking a driving lesson in a ferari.
There is your *FATAL* mistake, you worry too much, stop thinking about it and JUST DO IT. Do you really care what other people think of you? Once you let fear in, it will consume you then, you will live your life in fear, DO YOU REALLY WANT THAT!? I'm taking a wild guess that you're thinking no. ;)
 

scorpio king

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I dont see any problem here.

Dont you want the girl? Its like a sack of money suddenly appearing inside your room!!!
 
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