So this girl I've been hanging out with who's pretty cool. We've been getting kinda close but we're not actually seeing each other (yet, I still haven't decided if I really want to date her or not, but I know she's really into me).
She and a friend of hers (girl) were going to this kick-back/party and I was going to meet them there. I had plans to go out of town for a week (which she already knew about, but I told her I would probably go to the party anyway). Well, I left for my trip early and didn't go.
I told her this on the phone (she called asking where I was...I kind of forgot to let her know) and she said she was really sad, telling me how I blew it, how she was starting to warm up to me but now not anymore (she said it in a kind of playful tone though). I said something like "Aw don't be mad, sorry I didn't let you know but I'll be back after the weekend". She continued acting mad/sad making me feel like I've disappointed her or something.
Anyway, I mean the girls' cool and all, but I just don't know if I really even want to date her yet, so I'm kinda indifferent about it. I mean if she is actually mad, what's she gonna do? Make out with a bunch of guys? Ignore me? Neither of those really bother me.
She's going out of town for the weekend too (driving long distance), and part of me wanted to text her saying something like "text me so I know you got in safely
" or something, just so she feels special, but is that an afc move? Ugh, I have an afc past (and somewhat present) and it tends to speak up every now and then, and I don't know what to do sometimes.
She and a friend of hers (girl) were going to this kick-back/party and I was going to meet them there. I had plans to go out of town for a week (which she already knew about, but I told her I would probably go to the party anyway). Well, I left for my trip early and didn't go.
I told her this on the phone (she called asking where I was...I kind of forgot to let her know) and she said she was really sad, telling me how I blew it, how she was starting to warm up to me but now not anymore (she said it in a kind of playful tone though). I said something like "Aw don't be mad, sorry I didn't let you know but I'll be back after the weekend". She continued acting mad/sad making me feel like I've disappointed her or something.
Anyway, I mean the girls' cool and all, but I just don't know if I really even want to date her yet, so I'm kinda indifferent about it. I mean if she is actually mad, what's she gonna do? Make out with a bunch of guys? Ignore me? Neither of those really bother me.
She's going out of town for the weekend too (driving long distance), and part of me wanted to text her saying something like "text me so I know you got in safely
" or something, just so she feels special, but is that an afc move? Ugh, I have an afc past (and somewhat present) and it tends to speak up every now and then, and I don't know what to do sometimes.