"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What the Hell

Rocko

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Ok, for those of you who don't know me, I'm Rocko and im a bit new in the community, i have some exp, but i would like to gain a lot. I was watchin TV just now and my friend calls me up. Ive known her for years now and only now she seems cute, dont ya just hate it when that happens. I decided to go out to lunch with her to try and put a move on (dont KNOW her THAT well). Her bf got jealous and was tryin to start **** with me, w/e. I used some boyfriend destroyers and succeeded, but it was of little use cuz the guy cried for her back (AFC ftw...) She took him back and now i'm beginning to think that ****s goin down for me. SO back to the story, she has called me a few times crying about ****, sharing some DEEP stuff, but now it was different, she was crying real bad and she didn't want to tell me why, she said "you'll find out tomorow" i threatened to ask her bro and she said he wont say...any suggestions on what i should do or whats goin on?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mission

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She might have cut herself, or gotten abused at home, if her brother knows what it is but won't say, he might be involved. If you truly are her friend just be a good guy, and listen, if she asks for advice, give it, if she doesn't continue to listen. Eventually she will cry herself out, you may never hook up with her, but sometimes it is better to be a good friends, than a good lay, and it will get you good social proof in the future, and you never know where it might go.

--Mission
 
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