"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What the hell part two?

Alle_Gory

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So, when a girl tells you that:

"I don't want to hang out with you, and be just some random girl. You just go around and play with all these girls and everything, and I don't want to be used like that. You're such and assh*le. No, I won't hang out with you, cause it is a big deal. I don't hang out with guys just like that, what do you think I am? Maybe its no big deal to you because you use all these girls and you try to get with all these girls.... you're such an *******".

Or something like that.

Seriously. WTF? I'm just a social guy at work, and this girl who's got a thing for me told me this. I hang out with some of the guys and the girls at work. I talk to them... and she thinks I'm a player and a user.

I'm flattered... but WTF? This is the same girl from "What the hell?" My other thread.

The same girl who was concerned about my safety driving home leaving work cause it was raining outside and she gave me a text to make sure I was ok.

The same girl, who helps me to clean sh*t at work (yes I work with her once in a blue moon)... just because.

She's Catholic and has two older brothers. I don't know if that means anything.


Is she a good girl? Or am I getting played?


What

The

Fvck.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kailex

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Right after all of that, I would have asked 1 of 2 questions:

#1 So how about a drink tonight?

#2 Your place or mine?

Because after spewing all of that emotional BS, she must have been horny as hell.

You definitely must be doing something right.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
I'm just playing it by ear.
Play it by eye too. Judge by actions AND words, not just words. Stop thinking of what she thinks of you and just go with the flow. Have your wits together!
 

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I dont know man, things are going well so far. Of course I'm going to make sure that what she's saying is good. She seems too good to be true, an interested girl who's normal.

During this little argument it went from namecalling, to me making fun of her, to flirting, to getting a date this week, and she apologized for blowing up at me a little later.

I don't know what to think man, I'm going for it but I'm going to be cautious. She is a girl after all and prone to the same faults. I have no doubt that given the right circumstances she could be like the rest of them if not worse because she's so passionate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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