"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What the hell part two?

Alle_Gory

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So, when a girl tells you that:

"I don't want to hang out with you, and be just some random girl. You just go around and play with all these girls and everything, and I don't want to be used like that. You're such and assh*le. No, I won't hang out with you, cause it is a big deal. I don't hang out with guys just like that, what do you think I am? Maybe its no big deal to you because you use all these girls and you try to get with all these girls.... you're such an *******".

Or something like that.

Seriously. WTF? I'm just a social guy at work, and this girl who's got a thing for me told me this. I hang out with some of the guys and the girls at work. I talk to them... and she thinks I'm a player and a user.

I'm flattered... but WTF? This is the same girl from "What the hell?" My other thread.

The same girl who was concerned about my safety driving home leaving work cause it was raining outside and she gave me a text to make sure I was ok.

The same girl, who helps me to clean sh*t at work (yes I work with her once in a blue moon)... just because.

She's Catholic and has two older brothers. I don't know if that means anything.


Is she a good girl? Or am I getting played?


What

The

Fvck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kailex

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Right after all of that, I would have asked 1 of 2 questions:

#1 So how about a drink tonight?

#2 Your place or mine?

Because after spewing all of that emotional BS, she must have been horny as hell.

You definitely must be doing something right.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
I'm just playing it by ear.
Play it by eye too. Judge by actions AND words, not just words. Stop thinking of what she thinks of you and just go with the flow. Have your wits together!
 

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I dont know man, things are going well so far. Of course I'm going to make sure that what she's saying is good. She seems too good to be true, an interested girl who's normal.

During this little argument it went from namecalling, to me making fun of her, to flirting, to getting a date this week, and she apologized for blowing up at me a little later.

I don't know what to think man, I'm going for it but I'm going to be cautious. She is a girl after all and prone to the same faults. I have no doubt that given the right circumstances she could be like the rest of them if not worse because she's so passionate.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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