What the hell is wrong with me?!

[European-DJ]

I need serious help, and perhaps some of you can help, or have had the same issues?..

- The problem is my erections .. i simply cannot hold an hard errection (If i can get it hard at all) ...
It has been like this since i broke up with my ex an year ago ..

THe **** is really freaking me out, since i had this naked women laying next to me, begging me to fvck her, but i could not get hard ..i went down on her instead ..

ISO serious help please .. man i am only fvcking 19 years old`!

 

[oneboy21]

Do you watch porn a lot?

 

[European-DJ]

I do .. and as soon as i turn on a porn i get ROCKHARD, no problem keeping it up .. JUst writing the pornsite into the browser can actually get me hard ..

(Even though this - PERHAPS - sounds weird, this is serious)

 

[EvilAgenda]

It's a sign for you to stop chasing women and meaningless relationships.
Your ck is trying to tell you that.

 

[Mr Wright]

I went through a stage where i couldnt get hard...twas pretty embarrassing and annoying. I dont think it was nerves because i wasnt a virgin. I literally couldnt have sex with my girlfriend for about 2 months because of it, then one day, it just went. I was 17 when it happened, so dont worry, its most likely a mental thing. I just learnt to reconnect with my body, i felt everything, like now i can feel my feet on the ground. Also i worked hard on my PC muscles...now ive only had one "failure to launch" since then and that was due to the fact that i was in significant pain.

Relax, calm down, dont let it get to you and you will get over it.

 

[European-DJ]

Mr. Wright, i must thank you for the comment, it is information like that which will help me.

I am no were near virgin, i am a bit nervous during sex sometimes though, but the latest time, damn mann, this has been serious!..

I atleast hope it will get away, or else, i will consult my doctor..

- Viagra is NOT my thing, so do not tell me to use it haha

 

[Warrior74]

happens to everyone at some point. its all mental.

Exercise.
Remove stress.
Stop watching porn
stop masturbating for a while
eat healthy and clean
cut out smoking
cut out drinking unless you are on a date, don't get drunk
do some relaxation exercises or do fun stuff to relax.
Have fun.

It should clear up in no time. Fact.

 

[High Voltage]

I do .. and as soon as i turn on a porn i get ROCKHARD, no problem keeping it up ..

Be careful with this. You can inadvertantly train your body to only get off to porn. Chances are the girls you watch are hotter, your hand is tighter than her pus55y, and it has a much larger visual stimulation component, which you can become dependent upon to become aroused.

You don't need drugs; the problem is almost assuredly mental, not physical.

Short answer: stop watching porn.

- HV

 

[Kal_Luke]

Right. I used to have a problem getting it hard in front of a girl I hadn't slept with before. I bet you find when you are lying on the bed with her kissing and groping you have no problem but when it gets to show time it's like pushing string. It can often happen during oh ***t where is the condom time. My advice is: everything is fine. You are a demon in bed and you are gonna make this woman squirm. Don't for a second think 'oh my god I want this so bad, she'll think I'm such a loser' most likely she'll think she is the problem. Just be cool. Take it one step at a time, just keep kissing and fondling her for a bout 5 minutes longer than you think you should. Everything will be fine. You have nothing to prove to anybody, you are a sexual T-Rex