"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What the hell is wrong with me?!

European-DJ

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I need serious help, and perhaps some of you can help, or have had the same issues?..

- The problem is my erections .. i simply cannot hold an hard errection (If i can get it hard at all) ...
It has been like this since i broke up with my ex an year ago ..

THe **** is really freaking me out, since i had this naked women laying next to me, begging me to fvck her, but i could not get hard ..i went down on her instead ..

ISO serious help please .. man i am only fvcking 19 years old`!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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European-DJ

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I do .. and as soon as i turn on a porn i get ROCKHARD, no problem keeping it up .. JUst writing the pornsite into the browser can actually get me hard ..

(Even though this - PERHAPS - sounds weird, this is serious)
 

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I went through a stage where i couldnt get hard...twas pretty embarrassing and annoying. I dont think it was nerves because i wasnt a virgin. I literally couldnt have sex with my girlfriend for about 2 months because of it, then one day, it just went. I was 17 when it happened, so dont worry, its most likely a mental thing. I just learnt to reconnect with my body, i felt everything, like now i can feel my feet on the ground. Also i worked hard on my PC muscles...now ive only had one "failure to launch" since then and that was due to the fact that i was in significant pain.

Relax, calm down, dont let it get to you and you will get over it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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European-DJ

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Mr. Wright, i must thank you for the comment, it is information like that which will help me.

I am no were near virgin, i am a bit nervous during sex sometimes though, but the latest time, damn mann, this has been serious!..

I atleast hope it will get away, or else, i will consult my doctor..

- Viagra is NOT my thing, so do not tell me to use it haha
 

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happens to everyone at some point. its all mental.

Exercise.
Remove stress.
Stop watching porn
stop masturbating for a while
eat healthy and clean
cut out smoking
cut out drinking unless you are on a date, don't get drunk
do some relaxation exercises or do fun stuff to relax.
Have fun.

It should clear up in no time. Fact.
 

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European-DJ said:
I do .. and as soon as i turn on a porn i get ROCKHARD, no problem keeping it up ..
Be careful with this. You can inadvertantly train your body to only get off to porn. Chances are the girls you watch are hotter, your hand is tighter than her pus55y, and it has a much larger visual stimulation component, which you can become dependent upon to become aroused.

You don't need drugs; the problem is almost assuredly mental, not physical.

Short answer: stop watching porn.

- HV
 

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Right. I used to have a problem getting it hard in front of a girl I hadn't slept with before. I bet you find when you are lying on the bed with her kissing and groping you have no problem but when it gets to show time it's like pushing string. It can often happen during oh ***t where is the condom time. My advice is: everything is fine. You are a demon in bed and you are gonna make this woman squirm. Don't for a second think 'oh my god I want this so bad, she'll think I'm such a loser' most likely she'll think she is the problem. Just be cool. Take it one step at a time, just keep kissing and fondling her for a bout 5 minutes longer than you think you should. Everything will be fine. You have nothing to prove to anybody, you are a sexual T-Rex
 
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