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What the hell is wrong with girls? Limiting your availability or fear of loss?

Bestie

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I'm kind of confused with girls physiology, they just don't settle for long time.

I'm having contact with few cheeks and their mood get's ****ed time to down. I just can't get what's wrong.

Read so many e-books, so many google searches, even this forums.

Simple concept I learn is to not throw our self to them.

But what exactly should we do?

I mean, a girl can never have higher interest in a boy unless he gives her a fear of loss? Can't it be like for example, let her know that you will not leave, but at the same time limit your availability.

In my case, mostly they know i will not leave them up and that I'm an understanding person, so can i just limit my availability?

Mostly girl's always beg those guys who create fear of loss by fighting and all.. Can't it work with no fights?

I've many girls that are showing lack of interest. Flaking on me, and at first they all showed full interest.

What do you guys says on this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

JoeMarron

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In my case, mostly they know i will not leave them up and that I'm an understanding person
This is your problem. Sure you can show affection and desire for her but she must always be the one putting in more effort whether that be her texting you more, saying I love you more, initiating dates more, etc. This is how you keep a woman interested. Keep her working for you.

These two articles are great examples of what you should strive for in a relationship

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/

http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/
 

jeffreylebowski

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Joe is pretty much right. You don't really even need to play games or be unavailable. Just live a full and interesting life and a woman will want to be a part if it. It's a lot easier when you are actually busy.

Don't overthink it regarding who is asking who out more. Just remember you're a person of value and don't compromise yourself for a woman. You can treat her great just remember she isn't your whole life...and doesn't want to be, actually.
 
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