"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What the hell is wrong with girls? Limiting your availability or fear of loss?

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I'm kind of confused with girls physiology, they just don't settle for long time.

I'm having contact with few cheeks and their mood get's ****ed time to down. I just can't get what's wrong.

Read so many e-books, so many google searches, even this forums.

Simple concept I learn is to not throw our self to them.

But what exactly should we do?

I mean, a girl can never have higher interest in a boy unless he gives her a fear of loss? Can't it be like for example, let her know that you will not leave, but at the same time limit your availability.

In my case, mostly they know i will not leave them up and that I'm an understanding person, so can i just limit my availability?

Mostly girl's always beg those guys who create fear of loss by fighting and all.. Can't it work with no fights?

I've many girls that are showing lack of interest. Flaking on me, and at first they all showed full interest.

What do you guys says on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In my case, mostly they know i will not leave them up and that I'm an understanding person
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This is your problem. Sure you can show affection and desire for her but she must always be the one putting in more effort whether that be her texting you more, saying I love you more, initiating dates more, etc. This is how you keep a woman interested. Keep her working for you.

These two articles are great examples of what you should strive for in a relationship

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/

http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/
 
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Joe is pretty much right. You don't really even need to play games or be unavailable. Just live a full and interesting life and a woman will want to be a part if it. It's a lot easier when you are actually busy.

Don't overthink it regarding who is asking who out more. Just remember you're a person of value and don't compromise yourself for a woman. You can treat her great just remember she isn't your whole life...and doesn't want to be, actually.
 
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