"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What the hell is wrong with girls? Limiting your availability or fear of loss?

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I'm kind of confused with girls physiology, they just don't settle for long time.

I'm having contact with few cheeks and their mood get's ****ed time to down. I just can't get what's wrong.

Read so many e-books, so many google searches, even this forums.

Simple concept I learn is to not throw our self to them.

But what exactly should we do?

I mean, a girl can never have higher interest in a boy unless he gives her a fear of loss? Can't it be like for example, let her know that you will not leave, but at the same time limit your availability.

In my case, mostly they know i will not leave them up and that I'm an understanding person, so can i just limit my availability?

Mostly girl's always beg those guys who create fear of loss by fighting and all.. Can't it work with no fights?

I've many girls that are showing lack of interest. Flaking on me, and at first they all showed full interest.

What do you guys says on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In my case, mostly they know i will not leave them up and that I'm an understanding person
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This is your problem. Sure you can show affection and desire for her but she must always be the one putting in more effort whether that be her texting you more, saying I love you more, initiating dates more, etc. This is how you keep a woman interested. Keep her working for you.

These two articles are great examples of what you should strive for in a relationship

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/

http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/
 
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Joe is pretty much right. You don't really even need to play games or be unavailable. Just live a full and interesting life and a woman will want to be a part if it. It's a lot easier when you are actually busy.

Don't overthink it regarding who is asking who out more. Just remember you're a person of value and don't compromise yourself for a woman. You can treat her great just remember she isn't your whole life...and doesn't want to be, actually.
 
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