"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What the hell is this ******** for?

Ouzo

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Ok its a weird thing my girlfriend does.

When we are in her bedroom ...not intending to have sex but we do get a little foreplay going and some mad hookup sessions.

Anyway, before all this I will be doing things to her ...picking on her, just smirking, etc and she will blatantly say "YOU ARE SO ANNOYING".

First time I was like ..."WTF" and pretended to leave and she was like NO NO NO and then she just basically flopped on top of me and starting ****ing hookup with me.

Its happened a few times now. We are perfect, things are going great ...what is this sign?

Does she feel that she is not in control and she just doesn't know what to say to me?

Help :/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alphathree

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Need tone of voice, body language, etc.

Whatever it means, it doesn't mean you're annoying. =)

I'd give you a 90% chance that it's a good thing; you're turning her on or frustrating her because you're in control and/or teasing. (also a good thing)

It's a weird choice of words though.

Sometimes girls call me a dork because part of my game is what I call my nerd game.

Basically I am completely unashamed of my inner nerd. FIRST, I demonstrate a lot of VALUE and SOCIAL PROOF and just generally be normal, but AFTER, I'm not afraid at all to let nerdiness slip in with TOTAL confidence.

e.g. I'll turn on my computer monitor as a night light.

I'll tell a REALLY nerdy joke:

"I'm sorry, the number you have dialed is imaginary. Please rotate your phone by 90 degrees and try again."

Bwhahaa. This is just a small part of my game of course: confidence in who I am.

Oh god, I'm babbling again.

OH RIGHT, so here's how this relates: consequently, girls I'm with will often call me a nerd/geek/dork all the time (playfully, of course.)

I play this up by saying they have more dork points than me, and then I'll bust on them for whatever I want, and play into my things as super cool.

Often, I can literally bend their reality so far that my things BECOME super cool just because I dictate that they are.

So if she calls you annoying, I have a sense that she's just playing into some aspect of your personality. See if you can reflect it back to her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your not wrong, all that crap and you could have answered the guy in 4 words. Bloody ridiculous, where the fvck are these tools coming from?
Hey man, take your negativity elsewhere.
 

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Originally posted by Alphathree
Hey man, take your negativity elsewhere.
Start talking less sh!t, leave the grey area nonsense for all the other generic dating sites and I will, deal? Get to a straight answer in other words, His question was one of the most basic there are and there was no need to ramble on and turn a simple answer into a 3 page essay. There are enough other places that cater for that sh!t.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Start talking less sh!t, leave the grey area nonsense for all the other generic dating sites and I will, deal? Get to a straight answer in other words, His question was one of the most basic there are and there was no need to ramble on and turn a simple answer into a 3 page essay. There are enough other places that cater for that sh!t.
Gezz man give it a break...the only one talking **** is you...Just let it go. He wasn't wrong, and he gave some good examples. If you write "You're so annoying" = "You make me wet", without any explanation, a noob may think you're actually kidding.
Peace dude...leave the hate alone.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Surprise surprise its the same 2 sheep who just got done declaring there "love" in that other thread. We just need the 3rd moron now and we'll have the complete set.
Your user name combined with the words...

LMFAO!!

Leave the computer and get some a$$ mate.

We've all been there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Haha too bad only three of the replies were indeed good.

Anyways I just wanted some sort of clue.

It is actually in a joking tone but REALLY loud ...sometimes I feel scared her mum will hear haha.
 
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