"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the hell is this ******** for?

Ouzo

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Ok its a weird thing my girlfriend does.

When we are in her bedroom ...not intending to have sex but we do get a little foreplay going and some mad hookup sessions.

Anyway, before all this I will be doing things to her ...picking on her, just smirking, etc and she will blatantly say "YOU ARE SO ANNOYING".

First time I was like ..."WTF" and pretended to leave and she was like NO NO NO and then she just basically flopped on top of me and starting ****ing hookup with me.

Its happened a few times now. We are perfect, things are going great ...what is this sign?

Does she feel that she is not in control and she just doesn't know what to say to me?

Help :/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alphathree

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Need tone of voice, body language, etc.

Whatever it means, it doesn't mean you're annoying. =)

I'd give you a 90% chance that it's a good thing; you're turning her on or frustrating her because you're in control and/or teasing. (also a good thing)

It's a weird choice of words though.

Sometimes girls call me a dork because part of my game is what I call my nerd game.

Basically I am completely unashamed of my inner nerd. FIRST, I demonstrate a lot of VALUE and SOCIAL PROOF and just generally be normal, but AFTER, I'm not afraid at all to let nerdiness slip in with TOTAL confidence.

e.g. I'll turn on my computer monitor as a night light.

I'll tell a REALLY nerdy joke:

"I'm sorry, the number you have dialed is imaginary. Please rotate your phone by 90 degrees and try again."

Bwhahaa. This is just a small part of my game of course: confidence in who I am.

Oh god, I'm babbling again.

OH RIGHT, so here's how this relates: consequently, girls I'm with will often call me a nerd/geek/dork all the time (playfully, of course.)

I play this up by saying they have more dork points than me, and then I'll bust on them for whatever I want, and play into my things as super cool.

Often, I can literally bend their reality so far that my things BECOME super cool just because I dictate that they are.

So if she calls you annoying, I have a sense that she's just playing into some aspect of your personality. See if you can reflect it back to her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your not wrong, all that crap and you could have answered the guy in 4 words. Bloody ridiculous, where the fvck are these tools coming from?
Hey man, take your negativity elsewhere.
 

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Originally posted by Alphathree
Hey man, take your negativity elsewhere.
Start talking less sh!t, leave the grey area nonsense for all the other generic dating sites and I will, deal? Get to a straight answer in other words, His question was one of the most basic there are and there was no need to ramble on and turn a simple answer into a 3 page essay. There are enough other places that cater for that sh!t.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Start talking less sh!t, leave the grey area nonsense for all the other generic dating sites and I will, deal? Get to a straight answer in other words, His question was one of the most basic there are and there was no need to ramble on and turn a simple answer into a 3 page essay. There are enough other places that cater for that sh!t.
Gezz man give it a break...the only one talking **** is you...Just let it go. He wasn't wrong, and he gave some good examples. If you write "You're so annoying" = "You make me wet", without any explanation, a noob may think you're actually kidding.
Peace dude...leave the hate alone.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Surprise surprise its the same 2 sheep who just got done declaring there "love" in that other thread. We just need the 3rd moron now and we'll have the complete set.
Your user name combined with the words...

LMFAO!!

Leave the computer and get some a$$ mate.

We've all been there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha too bad only three of the replies were indeed good.

Anyways I just wanted some sort of clue.

It is actually in a joking tone but REALLY loud ...sometimes I feel scared her mum will hear haha.
 
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