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What the hell is flirting?

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What is it exactly? Happened to me last semester, I was talking to a girl about class and then she turns around and said i was flirting with her (only found out what she said just now)

what will be the difference between just a conversation and flirting? And how to do it?

I DONT GET IT! Anybody got a video or something?
 

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Flirting is showing sexuality to women. Men should be sexual with women as much as they want, but in this society, sexuality is wrong so that is why flirting is such a big deal.

Flirting is much more in HOW you say it rather than what you say. If you say "Hey, what's goin' on?" in a cheerful voice standing 3 ft away from her, not flirting. Say that again, but using a deeper/seductive voice, keeping strong eye contact, getting close to her, and touching her arm, that's closer to flirting.
 
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That_guy said:
Happened to me last semester, I was talking to a girl about class and then she turns around and said i was flirting with her
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Sometimes we give young ladies too much credit... We assume they know what they're talking about and have their sh*t together... As guys, we also tend to assume that WE are the problem or did something wrong. If you're telling us what really happened, then it sounds like this young lass is either confused, isn't used to speaking with guys, or maybe was even planting a seed of SUGGESTION because she's interested in you.

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Fly By Night said:
Flirting is showing sexuality to women. Men should be sexual with women as much as they want, but in this society, sexuality is wrong so that is why flirting is such a big deal.

Flirting is much more in HOW you say it rather than what you say. If you say "Hey, what's goin' on?" in a cheerful voice standing 3 ft away from her, not flirting. Say that again, but using a deeper/seductive voice, keeping strong eye contact, getting close to her, and touching her arm, that's closer to flirting.
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I literally did NONE of that. Lmao

I was even looking at the class textbook while talking to her then now one of my friends said "oh that girl x said that you tried flirting with her last sem" dafuq
 
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That_guy said:
What is it exactly? Happened to me last semester, I was talking to a girl about class and then she turns around and said i was flirting with her (only found out what she said just now)

what will be the difference between just a conversation and flirting? And how to do it?

I DONT GET IT! Anybody got a video or something?
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She just did a little ****-test to see how you would react.

If you had just reacted like: "no I am just talking to you the same way I would talk to any other girl like you." you would have been fine. It's the same as a girl saying: "why are you looking so angry?" or "you look like my boyfriend!". Don't let things like that phase you.

I simply wouldn't care too much. Just be positive about it.
 

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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She just did a little ****-test to see how you would react.

If you had just reacted like: "no I am just talking to you the same way I would talk to any other girl like you." you would have been fine. It's the same as a girl saying: "why are you looking so angry?" or "you look like my boyfriend!". Don't let things like that phase you.

I simply wouldn't care too much. Just be positive about it.
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Of course not. I just wanted to know what flirting is, exactly. I mean, I dont know what it is lol nor how to do it, really. Maybe I was doing it without me even knowing so.
 
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