What the hell... hooking up with girls is too much work for me now

[Oxide]

This kind of been happening over the last two years or so - when I am out partying I am money - kissing, rubbing, girls love me. So i'll get their number and may be even call them. But when I think about the whole process and the logistics involved, I think to myself - why try? I mean I can do the whole "call her up, get her to meet me somewhere go back to hers/mine hook up/chill/go our ways" and it seems like just too much work and time involved. Honestly - If I want to release the sexual energy - there are plenty of hot girls on my computer willing to do anything..and this saves me a lot of time. It's almost like I have to be in the mood... or I want her to do most of the work (drive to my place, do everything, leave)

Anyone else experiencing this? And no, this isn't caused by me not having game/girls - in fact I am actually supposed to be hanging out with a girl tonight... I just don't know if I want to go do all this just for sex.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

sounds like u need 2 mix up your seducing...You arent gettin the chase you want or you have exhausted the type of girls you go after maybe? Sounds like something a bit of variety can help solve

 

[lookyoung]

I have also had many periods in my life where I feel just like you feel. I am just too lazy to call them, go out with them, etc...... I just want the easy pvssy. The only way I was never lazy is if the girl is an HB9 or HB10 then I would get motivated


Lately I have been more motivated which is a good thing. THink of it this way don't be lazy life is too short. Imagine when your 55 years old, you will think back on these days and say why the fvck was I so lazy.

Keep sarging.

 

[realsmoothie]

Maybe you're ready for a relationship. Yeah, I know, that's a dirty word on this site... but it doesn't have to be marriage.

Do you CARE about any of these girls? Have you ever wanted to do anything for them, wanted to share parts of yourself with them (don't go there), etc.?

 

[Oxide]

I think I got it. I'll share it with you may be it will help someone

1. If you don't have sex for awhile, you forget how good it feels. So you think a hand is an adequate substitute for sex. Which it isnt.

2. You don't care about women and only look at them as sex objects. Which is a flawed perspective, because you do not grow and learn to have emotional connections. You also will not make friends/girl friends easily.

3. Your game is weak. You are actually afraid to call her. Afraid she will not pick up. Afraid she isn't going to show up. So you say "why should I?"

4. Because of 2, you failed to establish a good connection with a girl, so when you call her, things from 3 happen.


Hopefully this helps some people.

I am actually dressed up right now and have a nice ride that I borrowed, so I am going out.



One more. If you feel down like this, eat some fruit, put on a good song and look at some hot girls online. You will then go out and feel good. Bye

 

[Oxide]

Lol she is in my bed right now.