"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What the hell... hooking up with girls is too much work for me now

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This kind of been happening over the last two years or so - when I am out partying I am money - kissing, rubbing, girls love me. So i'll get their number and may be even call them. But when I think about the whole process and the logistics involved, I think to myself - why try? I mean I can do the whole "call her up, get her to meet me somewhere go back to hers/mine hook up/chill/go our ways" and it seems like just too much work and time involved. Honestly - If I want to release the sexual energy - there are plenty of hot girls on my computer willing to do anything..and this saves me a lot of time. It's almost like I have to be in the mood... or I want her to do most of the work (drive to my place, do everything, leave)

Anyone else experiencing this? And no, this isn't caused by me not having game/girls - in fact I am actually supposed to be hanging out with a girl tonight... I just don't know if I want to go do all this just for sex.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sounds like u need 2 mix up your seducing...You arent gettin the chase you want or you have exhausted the type of girls you go after maybe? Sounds like something a bit of variety can help solve
 
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I have also had many periods in my life where I feel just like you feel. I am just too lazy to call them, go out with them, etc...... I just want the easy pvssy. The only way I was never lazy is if the girl is an HB9 or HB10 then I would get motivated


Lately I have been more motivated which is a good thing. THink of it this way don't be lazy life is too short. Imagine when your 55 years old, you will think back on these days and say why the fvck was I so lazy.

Keep sarging.
 
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Maybe you're ready for a relationship. Yeah, I know, that's a dirty word on this site... but it doesn't have to be marriage.

Do you CARE about any of these girls? Have you ever wanted to do anything for them, wanted to share parts of yourself with them (don't go there), etc.?
 
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I think I got it. I'll share it with you may be it will help someone

1. If you don't have sex for awhile, you forget how good it feels. So you think a hand is an adequate substitute for sex. Which it isnt.

2. You don't care about women and only look at them as sex objects. Which is a flawed perspective, because you do not grow and learn to have emotional connections. You also will not make friends/girl friends easily.

3. Your game is weak. You are actually afraid to call her. Afraid she will not pick up. Afraid she isn't going to show up. So you say "why should I?"

4. Because of 2, you failed to establish a good connection with a girl, so when you call her, things from 3 happen.


Hopefully this helps some people.

I am actually dressed up right now and have a nice ride that I borrowed, so I am going out.



One more. If you feel down like this, eat some fruit, put on a good song and look at some hot girls online. You will then go out and feel good. Bye
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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