"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What the hell has gone wrong now!

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Aazman

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so basically using that same intro i used last time:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176216

I wanted to see whether it works with all HBs and with uglier women.

It works with uglier women well.

However with this other HB i did it with:

She basically resisted the date idea- said excuse me? etc.

Now fair enough this other HB, I've known her for a short time but not really spoken much to her. So what do you think may have caused this?


Also is it a CRIME to ask this infront of other people? Especially when she's with her friends.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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omega05

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maybe try a different method to ask a girl out. get her number first and do it over the phone.
 
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Aazman

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Basically I'm trying to categorise wether it's too blunt to people. But how can you find out what kind of girl responds to that negatively?

Any clue?
 

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There is no way to find out if the girl is going to take it badly or not until AFTER you say it...hindsight is always the best thing in the world.

Also your opening ISNT that direct..you should try the Apoc opener if you want to see how direct you can go and then compare it to your opener.

if your doing the same thing word for word...I would take out the "How are we going to keep in contact," Becuase your basically giving her control of the situation and just tell her to give you her number so you can call her to tell her to start getting dressed for the date.

But thats just my opinions good lucks and keep updating.
 
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