"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What the hell has gone wrong now!

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Aazman

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so basically using that same intro i used last time:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176216

I wanted to see whether it works with all HBs and with uglier women.

It works with uglier women well.

However with this other HB i did it with:

She basically resisted the date idea- said excuse me? etc.

Now fair enough this other HB, I've known her for a short time but not really spoken much to her. So what do you think may have caused this?


Also is it a CRIME to ask this infront of other people? Especially when she's with her friends.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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omega05

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maybe try a different method to ask a girl out. get her number first and do it over the phone.
 
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Aazman

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Basically I'm trying to categorise wether it's too blunt to people. But how can you find out what kind of girl responds to that negatively?

Any clue?
 

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There is no way to find out if the girl is going to take it badly or not until AFTER you say it...hindsight is always the best thing in the world.

Also your opening ISNT that direct..you should try the Apoc opener if you want to see how direct you can go and then compare it to your opener.

if your doing the same thing word for word...I would take out the "How are we going to keep in contact," Becuase your basically giving her control of the situation and just tell her to give you her number so you can call her to tell her to start getting dressed for the date.

But thats just my opinions good lucks and keep updating.
 
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