"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what the hell happened.....?

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this girl i work with (HB8) is pretty cool. There's eye contact, kino (from both of us) etc. but the other day she did something that was uhh.....weird. we were talking and in the middle of the conversation she says, "Guess what, my friends are jealous of me because there's this cute guy we keep seeing and I finally started talking to him."

WHAT IN THE FUK WAS THAT?

i dont know what that was if anything.
i have some ideas of what it was, but i don't even want to say.
help me out. What was that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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She could be implying you,or most probably you're one step closer to the FZ
 
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gameplace123 said:
this girl i work with (HB8) is pretty cool. There's eye contact, kino (from both of us) etc. but the other day she did something that was uhh.....weird. we were talking and in the middle of the conversation she says, "Guess what, my friends are jealous of me because there's this cute guy we keep seeing and I finally started talking to him."

WHAT IN THE FUK WAS THAT?

i dont know what that was if anything.
i have some ideas of what it was, but i don't even want to say.
help me out. What was that?
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Haha, dude, if you wanna be funny, and use the ****y/funny technique I'd just totally be like "sooo, your friends know about me?" or something like that implying that cute guy is you!...just totally have fun with it!
 
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dude you've been screwed

yep, you been screwed dude. maybe i dont know much but i think you've been screwed man. how can she say that? anyways, the best thing you can do now is ignore this remark and start going out with one of her friends. that will piss her off for sure and teach her not to play with your balls:up:
 
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...or she could just be testing you.. seeing how you react.

Great tip by the way! We can all learn from your wisdom.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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or she could be trying to make you jelous!
 
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gameplace123 said:
this girl i work with (HB8) is pretty cool. There's eye contact, kino (from both of us) etc. but the other day she did something that was uhh.....weird. we were talking and in the middle of the conversation she says, "Guess what, my friends are jealous of me because there's this cute guy we keep seeing and I finally started talking to him."

WHAT IN THE FUK WAS THAT?

i dont know what that was if anything.
i have some ideas of what it was, but i don't even want to say.
help me out. What was that?
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This TIP should make the hall of fame!
 
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Please read the description for the forum before posting in it.

DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Moved to DJD.
 
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"You're talking to him?! Back off, i was here first!" :D

Hahah, but really... who cares? Maybe she's testing you to see if you get all confused (if that's the case, she succeeded), or maybe it was just a random remark. But really... WHO CARES?
 
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