"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what the hell happened.....?

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this girl i work with (HB8) is pretty cool. There's eye contact, kino (from both of us) etc. but the other day she did something that was uhh.....weird. we were talking and in the middle of the conversation she says, "Guess what, my friends are jealous of me because there's this cute guy we keep seeing and I finally started talking to him."

WHAT IN THE FUK WAS THAT?

i dont know what that was if anything.
i have some ideas of what it was, but i don't even want to say.
help me out. What was that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GloriouslyInsane

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She could be implying you,or most probably you're one step closer to the FZ
 

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gameplace123 said:
this girl i work with (HB8) is pretty cool. There's eye contact, kino (from both of us) etc. but the other day she did something that was uhh.....weird. we were talking and in the middle of the conversation she says, "Guess what, my friends are jealous of me because there's this cute guy we keep seeing and I finally started talking to him."

WHAT IN THE FUK WAS THAT?

i dont know what that was if anything.
i have some ideas of what it was, but i don't even want to say.
help me out. What was that?

Haha, dude, if you wanna be funny, and use the ****y/funny technique I'd just totally be like "sooo, your friends know about me?" or something like that implying that cute guy is you!...just totally have fun with it!
 

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dude you've been screwed

yep, you been screwed dude. maybe i dont know much but i think you've been screwed man. how can she say that? anyways, the best thing you can do now is ignore this remark and start going out with one of her friends. that will piss her off for sure and teach her not to play with your balls:up:
 

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...or she could just be testing you.. seeing how you react.

Great tip by the way! We can all learn from your wisdom.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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or she could be trying to make you jelous!
 

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gameplace123 said:
this girl i work with (HB8) is pretty cool. There's eye contact, kino (from both of us) etc. but the other day she did something that was uhh.....weird. we were talking and in the middle of the conversation she says, "Guess what, my friends are jealous of me because there's this cute guy we keep seeing and I finally started talking to him."

WHAT IN THE FUK WAS THAT?

i dont know what that was if anything.
i have some ideas of what it was, but i don't even want to say.
help me out. What was that?
This TIP should make the hall of fame!
 

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Please read the description for the forum before posting in it.

DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Moved to DJD.
 

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"You're talking to him?! Back off, i was here first!" :D

Hahah, but really... who cares? Maybe she's testing you to see if you get all confused (if that's the case, she succeeded), or maybe it was just a random remark. But really... WHO CARES?
 
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