"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

What the hell happened to me today?

coolf1r3

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2008
Messages
121
Reaction score
0
Location
Reppin' that 860 in Hartford, CT!
I couldn't approach ANY girls what-so-ever. The most horrendous one took place during 8th period. I was in the library and I saw this HB8 (brunette, I'm such a sucker for brunettes) sitting by herself at a PC, working. She seemed into her work so I decided to observe the scene. There was an empty PC next to her, and the others were filled. I could have walked up, asked if the seat was taken, and proceeded to converse with her. But...I didn't.


I feel like **** right now.:sad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

TheWayOfAllFlesh

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2008
Messages
224
Reaction score
0
Age
35
same here mate i just cant ****ing do it and get well upset. dunno how to overcome it
 
Top