"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What the hell happened to me today?

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coolf1r3

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I couldn't approach ANY girls what-so-ever. The most horrendous one took place during 8th period. I was in the library and I saw this HB8 (brunette, I'm such a sucker for brunettes) sitting by herself at a PC, working. She seemed into her work so I decided to observe the scene. There was an empty PC next to her, and the others were filled. I could have walked up, asked if the seat was taken, and proceeded to converse with her. But...I didn't.


I feel like **** right now.:sad:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheWayOfAllFlesh

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same here mate i just cant ****ing do it and get well upset. dunno how to overcome it
 
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