"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What the hell does sorta mean?
- Thread starter rippa32
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
typical
Master Don Juan
Let me break down how uni works in general, its just like high school but with alot more freedom, the jocks still rule and the nerds still get put down, learn to distinguish between what is real and what is fake, girls at uni are there to find out who they are in life, thats why they do weird as degrees and papers.
Now the real reason why you don't ever say its a date its because you already asked her out to the movie she already knows shes going to go with you to a movie she doesn't need to be told that its a date, she knows its a date but would rather play along and get swept off her feet.
They must have a paper that teaches you about how humans socialise and how the human mind works, my advice take it it'll teach you alot.
They aren't easy as in go grab a girl and take her to your place and shag all night long, theres an art to the process which has been programmed into you from birth, you just need to learn a few things about it to get it working for you.
Now my advice this so called girl would be to ditch the movies idea and take her for lunch to a nearby park get in close talk about any crap you want just not boring things about studies ........ actually don't even mentions anything to do with studies isolate her get close and go in for a kiss. Try it if it works good job if not look around plenty more.
typical
Master Don Juan
Nope not American just across the ditch from kiwi land, spent a year in the states so thats where I picked up some of the lingo.rippa32 said:I am assuming you are american judging from your use of the word jock. Nerds are not put down at uni in Australia, High School is pretty much the same however ,it is so much more civilised in that regard. I am not putting your country down, you do raise valid points but one thing I have learnt over the years is try to avoid cultural bias. Also I am looking for a long term relationship not a quick shag. Also if she already assumed a date why would she get so put off by me saying so?
I said that whole jocks and nerds thing as a large exaggeration, your only 18 so saying you want a LTR right now isn't a very good idea, go see the world make something out of yourself then see if some girl is worth your time of settling down. I'm being serious man ask the girl to hang out again and if she Doesn't try to get somewhere with her (at least a kiss, and I mean with some tongue action LOL).
And girls like to be led they really do like not knowing what to expect yea they whine about it and bit(h about some guy jumping her etc etc but in a few months time you normally hear them saying how shes dating the guy that jumped her and kissed her. Girls are just like that, next time a girl says shes willing to hang out with you just assume its a date and go from there. They live in a bubble of candy and flowers and don't like to deal with alot of things ....... don't argue with me they all seriously do even the feminists do too.
And if your looking for a LTR (and really who isn't), then go out and date as many girls as you can and then decide what sort of girl you want to settle down with, what you think you know about a person is just the tip of the iceberg it takes over 6 months to start to even find out who the real person is that your dating. Don't be a fool and rush in.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.