Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What the hell do you do if you forget what she looks like?

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so that girl i met at the christmas party has invited me to a party she's holding this weekend, but i can't remember what she looks like!

i was thinking i'll ask her to a coffee before that, just one on one, and reacquaint myself with her

thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cinamon

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Lol. Or when sge comes up to you and starts chatting you can do the "omg I didn't recognize you, only you can pull off two such different looks and look hot in both"
 

DonGorgon

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lol.. I go out and get around 20 numbers every weekend so guess what .. i have to clue who they are until they either send me a pic or i get then to come to my house.. so it does not matter what they look like unless they are gona come over and F...
 

shaunuk

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This happens to me all the time because I insist on getting drunk and/or off my tits on drugs when I go out.

I wake up the next day knowing whether or not they were hot but I can't really remember exactly what they look like...so I search their name on facebook. If I don't know their full name...well they're usually still be on my universitiy's network (most girls I meet are students) so I can look at girls until it clicks in my head and I recognise one of them. At least one of the mates your out with is likely to remember what she looked like better than you do as well, so get them to help out.

I only do that if I actually give a sh1t though. I know it sounds stalkerish but believe me everybody does it.

I have done what cinamon said as well. She may be a little bit offended so after that I will act very interested to spark the thought in her mind that now I'm now even more attracted to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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