"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What the hell do you do if you forget what she looks like?

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so that girl i met at the christmas party has invited me to a party she's holding this weekend, but i can't remember what she looks like!

i was thinking i'll ask her to a coffee before that, just one on one, and reacquaint myself with her

thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cinamon

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Lol. Or when sge comes up to you and starts chatting you can do the "omg I didn't recognize you, only you can pull off two such different looks and look hot in both"
 

DonGorgon

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lol.. I go out and get around 20 numbers every weekend so guess what .. i have to clue who they are until they either send me a pic or i get then to come to my house.. so it does not matter what they look like unless they are gona come over and F...
 

shaunuk

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This happens to me all the time because I insist on getting drunk and/or off my tits on drugs when I go out.

I wake up the next day knowing whether or not they were hot but I can't really remember exactly what they look like...so I search their name on facebook. If I don't know their full name...well they're usually still be on my universitiy's network (most girls I meet are students) so I can look at girls until it clicks in my head and I recognise one of them. At least one of the mates your out with is likely to remember what she looked like better than you do as well, so get them to help out.

I only do that if I actually give a sh1t though. I know it sounds stalkerish but believe me everybody does it.

I have done what cinamon said as well. She may be a little bit offended so after that I will act very interested to spark the thought in her mind that now I'm now even more attracted to her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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