"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What the hell do you do if you forget what she looks like?

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so that girl i met at the christmas party has invited me to a party she's holding this weekend, but i can't remember what she looks like!

i was thinking i'll ask her to a coffee before that, just one on one, and reacquaint myself with her

thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cinamon

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Lol. Or when sge comes up to you and starts chatting you can do the "omg I didn't recognize you, only you can pull off two such different looks and look hot in both"
 

DonGorgon

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lol.. I go out and get around 20 numbers every weekend so guess what .. i have to clue who they are until they either send me a pic or i get then to come to my house.. so it does not matter what they look like unless they are gona come over and F...
 

shaunuk

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This happens to me all the time because I insist on getting drunk and/or off my tits on drugs when I go out.

I wake up the next day knowing whether or not they were hot but I can't really remember exactly what they look like...so I search their name on facebook. If I don't know their full name...well they're usually still be on my universitiy's network (most girls I meet are students) so I can look at girls until it clicks in my head and I recognise one of them. At least one of the mates your out with is likely to remember what she looked like better than you do as well, so get them to help out.

I only do that if I actually give a sh1t though. I know it sounds stalkerish but believe me everybody does it.

I have done what cinamon said as well. She may be a little bit offended so after that I will act very interested to spark the thought in her mind that now I'm now even more attracted to her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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