What the hell do I do?

[SoSerene]

Went out with a girl a few times, kiss close on first date...haven't really progressed passed that yet. We're supposed to meet up again on Friday and she said she is "down for just chilling, something low key". Is that code-word for friend zone speak?

The obvious solution is to invite her over and proceed from there...but I'm in a transition phrase right now I won't have my own place for another few weeks. Her living situation isn't exactly ideal right now either so I'm not quite sure what to do. She also doesn't drink so I'd feel awkward chilling in a lounge with her drinking water. I'm trying to take things to the next level but finding it hard to do without my own place right now, so not sure how to keep the ball rolling while keeping things "low key".

 

[Purefilth]

awkwaaard! yeah, I feel you bro, take her down a dark alley/ the woods/ the park....
Joking! - But they're not bad options really - have done woods and park, but not an alley do you have a car?- you could go dogging
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Keep it short& sweet, escalate a little, but leave her wanting more

 

[thevilittletroll]

go on an action date, something fun in public. something that requires a lot of physical interaction. continue to escalate physically but use both of your living situations to your advantage as a cliffhanger to build sexual tension. make sure you end your date on a physical high note. do not at any point lead her to think you are trying to end the date in sex. always keep pushing her away from you after you have escalated. trust me at some point she will take charge and want sex. at that point you will start talking about where you can go, car, motel, a friends house, someplace public, you get the point.

 

[marmel75]

Ummm...are u a retard? Chilling/low key=movie at ur place and a chance to fvck...cmon bro, I mean seriously, does she have to pull ur d!ck out of your pants for you to get the hint??

I mean really...action date?? The chick just basically gave him a green light to come over to his place and u want him to go on an action date?? Take her on an action date...in your bedroom.

Just saw u don't have ur own place...invite yourself over to her place then. If she is DTF she will b cool with it.