Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What the hell am I supposed to reply to this?

Reckoning

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Aside from other compliments I get from time to time, there's one thing that just pisses me off. I have dimples on my cheeks, little holes that show up whenever I smile and girls often compliment me on them, like, "omg I love that, you're so pretty/hot with those!" and then most would pinch my cheek. Then I feel like a little chubby kid and I sheepish smile and blush occasionally depending on who's doing it and continue on the conversation. I feel like such a retard when girls do that.

Does anyone else have cheek dimples and what do you say when someone finds them cute on you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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faiNt`

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I think it's all in how you perceive it. When they give you a compliment on it, simply reply "I know." At least that's the ****y answer I would give.

If you don't think they are embarrassing, they won't be. This is why awkward doesn't exist for me anymore; it's all in how one perception is generated.
 

War Against Betaism

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I actually have dimples on my cheeks too. Last time someone complimented me on them, I said "Oh thanks, they do make me look kind of pretty."
 

vatoloco

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Reckoning said:
I have dimples on my cheeks, little holes that show up whenever I smile and girls often compliment me on them, like, "omg I love that, you're so pretty/hot with those!" and then most would pinch my cheek.
Come back with:

You: "Hey, turn around"
Her: *turns around*
You: *looking at her ass* "omg I love that, you're so pretty/hot with that!"

and then pinch her cheeks... her ass cheeks that is!

;)

You could also use boobs interchangeably. :whistle:

Seriously now, you're complaining that women are touching your face and telling you you're attractive? Man, I wish I had your kind of problems...

Please tell me that you're #/date/kiss closing with that kind of flirting!

Please.
 

Reckoning

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Seriously now, you're complaining that women are touching your face and telling you you're attractive? Man, I wish I had your kind of problems...

Please tell me that you're #/date/kiss closing with that kind of flirting!

Please.
The latest one sure is a prospect. I always go for the closing if it's a girl that suits me, physically + a lil bit personality wise. I'm picky.

I'm complaining because it makes me feel like a chubby fat kid everyone thinks is cute.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ysqh1uzqGrc
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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koogiking

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I have dimples too. I've had people say that I have an 8 year old face with a 21 year old body since I'm 6 feet 3. Having a baby face is not bad. Just play it off. Make it a good thing. Be proud of your babyface
 
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