"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What the hell am I supposed to reply to this?

Reckoning

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Aside from other compliments I get from time to time, there's one thing that just pisses me off. I have dimples on my cheeks, little holes that show up whenever I smile and girls often compliment me on them, like, "omg I love that, you're so pretty/hot with those!" and then most would pinch my cheek. Then I feel like a little chubby kid and I sheepish smile and blush occasionally depending on who's doing it and continue on the conversation. I feel like such a retard when girls do that.

Does anyone else have cheek dimples and what do you say when someone finds them cute on you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think it's all in how you perceive it. When they give you a compliment on it, simply reply "I know." At least that's the ****y answer I would give.

If you don't think they are embarrassing, they won't be. This is why awkward doesn't exist for me anymore; it's all in how one perception is generated.
 

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I actually have dimples on my cheeks too. Last time someone complimented me on them, I said "Oh thanks, they do make me look kind of pretty."
 

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Reckoning said:
I have dimples on my cheeks, little holes that show up whenever I smile and girls often compliment me on them, like, "omg I love that, you're so pretty/hot with those!" and then most would pinch my cheek.
Come back with:

You: "Hey, turn around"
Her: *turns around*
You: *looking at her ass* "omg I love that, you're so pretty/hot with that!"

and then pinch her cheeks... her ass cheeks that is!

;)

You could also use boobs interchangeably. :whistle:

Seriously now, you're complaining that women are touching your face and telling you you're attractive? Man, I wish I had your kind of problems...

Please tell me that you're #/date/kiss closing with that kind of flirting!

Please.
 

Reckoning

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Seriously now, you're complaining that women are touching your face and telling you you're attractive? Man, I wish I had your kind of problems...

Please tell me that you're #/date/kiss closing with that kind of flirting!

Please.
The latest one sure is a prospect. I always go for the closing if it's a girl that suits me, physically + a lil bit personality wise. I'm picky.

I'm complaining because it makes me feel like a chubby fat kid everyone thinks is cute.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ysqh1uzqGrc
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have dimples too. I've had people say that I have an 8 year old face with a 21 year old body since I'm 6 feet 3. Having a baby face is not bad. Just play it off. Make it a good thing. Be proud of your babyface
 
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