What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Oxide
congrats gio, you have finally risen to my level

Yeah, well it takes a lot of time, effort, and energy to be dumb as an ox. I knew it would take a while, but here we both are. Two oxen.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Gio, perhaps you could save a lot of time and effort if you become more perceptive of the girl in question. That is, being able to see through the bullsh1t from jump street, and not bother taking her out if she's not worth it.

 

[The Edge]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I also want to clear up a couple of things that some people seem to be having some trouble grasping.

1. I'm not having trouble getting women.

1. 
   
   I don't think anyone doubts this. However, you are very an*al when it comes to playing the field. And by that I don't mean lunches and dates with women, I mean popping more than one cherry at a time.
   
   You act like a phukkyn monk sometimes. Not to say that your chivalrous qualities aren't admirable, but when those attributes lead you to write a thread like this (IN PURE BOREDOM I MIGHT ADD) lets just say you need to open up to different roads and lifestyles .
   
   Edge

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
Gio, perhaps you could save a lot of time and effort if you become more perceptive of the girl in question. That is, being able to see through the bullsh1t from jump street, and not bother taking her out if she's not worth it.

I'm still honing my psychic abilities, so for the moment what I do is I just ask out and date girls I'm relatively attracted to. I won't know if she's worth it until I've actually taken her out, I had to fire my private investigator so the vetting and the background checks aren't being done quite the way they used to.

Every girl has a fair amount of bullsh*t if you look hard enough, and I don't "next" a girl if she sneezes the wrong way, much to the dismay of many guys here. Is that the problem? I don't think so, really.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by The Edge
You act like a phukkyn monk sometimes. Not to say that your chivalrous qualities aren't admirable, but when those attributes lead you to write a thread like this (IN PURE BOREDOM I MIGHT ADD) lets just say you need to open up to different roads and lifestyles.

Edge, I appreciate what you're saying. I actually do. But look at it this way.

Let's say that you decide to post a thread -- for whatever reason -- saying that you've been dating all these girls and you want them all. I mean, there just isn't enough time in the day for all the girls you want to date/f*ck/whatever. And you ask the guys here, "Man, do you ever feel like there's just too many women and not enough time?"

Then I come on and say, "What you need to do is just pick one girl and stick with her. Stop playing the field, stop f*cking all these different women and having flings and one-night-stands. Your problem is that you have sex with too many women."

Wouldn't you think that was ridiculous? And not necessarily because it would be a horrible idea. I mean, if you stuck to one woman, that might solve the *problem* you're talking about, which was that there were too many women. But that's not what you want. You want lots of women, not just one. So that solution won't work for you.

With me, my problem is that I can't really find ONE woman that keeps me interested long enough to see anything coming from it at all. Now, if I can't find ONE woman who keeps me interested and satisfied, what makes you think that I'll find FIVE or TEN that will?

And that's even if I was interested in having meaningless flings, which I'm just not.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I'm still honing my psychic abilities, so for the moment what I do is I just ask out and date girls I'm relatively attracted to. I won't know if she's worth it until I've actually taken her out, I had to fire my private investigator so the vetting and the background checks aren't being done quite the way they used to.

Every girl has a fair amount of bullsh*t if you look hard enough, and I don't "next" a girl if she sneezes the wrong way, much to the dismay of many guys here. Is that the problem? I don't think so, really.

lol Gio, sorry to hear about your private investigator and dull psychic abilities but I think you are wrong when you say every girl has a fair amount of bullsh*t if you look hard enough.

The only way to cut down on the effort involved in finding better women is to improve your skills in perception. If you can't get a grasp on her character, IQ, personality, morals, etc., etc., through simple conversation, and have to actually date the girl, then so be it. If it's worth the effort or not can only be answered by you.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
lol Gio, sorry to hear about your private investigator and dull psychic abilities but I think you are wrong when you say every girl has a fair amount of bullsh*t if you look hard enough.

I respectfully disagree with your disagreement. And, for the moment, let's say that you're right, and there are some girls out there that don't have a fair amount of bullsh*t if you look hard enough. I don't deserve those girls. Why? Because I have a fair amount of bullsh*t and you don't even have to look that hard for it. Just look at this thread and you'll see what I mean.

 

[The Edge]

I hear you man, however, when a guy has astronomical potential(personality-wise that is, since I don't know you) it's almost fukkyn vile and sickening to hear:

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova

Last week on a first date .

This weekend, I have a date .

I'm not the kind of guy who wants a string of meaningless one-time stands and empty short-term flings.

I think to myself, best-case scenario, I end up liking Kate and she likes me. What then?

I've got my second "first date" in two weeks in a few days, but I'm not nervous, I'm not excited. I'm not anything. Anyone else get like that?

From a seasoned individual like yourself. It almost sounds like a spurt of regression in the lifeline and growth of a DJ.

Edge

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

I guess all I'm getting at, Edge, is that I can have two or three or five or however many girls that I'm dating/sexing/whatever all at the same time, but to me five girls that bore me isn't as good as one girl who I really connect with.

 

[Genghis Juan]

Cut Gio some slack.

When a guy is looking for something more signficant than a fling, ONS or an STR, the standards are naturally going to be higher.

When one is stringing along 4 or 5 girls, obviously the frame of mind and standards are going to be lower. But it is also taxing on time and resources to be juggling multiple girls.

Gio - I'd say just relax, you haven't met a girl that has "rung your bell" yet. Just keep working on your life. Form what I understand, you recently came out of a signficant relationship; perhaps you underestimated the requisite recovery time.

 

[Oxide]

edge, you havent changed one bit in a whole year.

still the same old advice : fvck all women on this planet!



Whoever decided that DJ is the guy who is a man ***** anyway?
I see it as just the Great guy.

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova

First of all, I was talking to PS, and he took it exactly the way I intended it. So suck it.

Secondly, yeah, I'm a sarcastic assh*le. But there is not exactly a shortage of girls wanting to go out with me, that isn't the problem and I've said that already on this thread.

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Yup, thats what I thought. Problem is you. You seem like you got alot of repressed anger. You just don't seem all that happy and fun to be around. And i can get all this from the words you type.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Yup, thats what I thought. Problem is you. You seem like you got alot of repressed anger. You just don't seem all that happy and fun to be around. And i can get all this from the words you type.

Hey Nostra-dumbass, I know you think that you have some sort of psychic "read" on me or something, but the truth is, you don't know sh*t about me.

Once again, you're inventing problems you *wish* I had, instead of focusing on what I actually said. You act like I have this horrible attitude that's driving the chicks away. That's not the case. I actually have a perfectly fine attitude, I just have no patience for idiots. And there are quite a few women who want to be with me, the problem was that they were boring me. I'm not here sniffling into my beer that I can't get a girlfriend.

And I am just fine around people I like. But yeah, I suppose I don't make it fun for people I don't like to be around me. Which works out fantastically for me, because the result is that I don't have to deal with as much bullsh*t. What do you want me to do, sing "You Are My Sunshine" to assh*les that I don't even like in the first place?

The people I like, they hang around me all the time, and have no problems.

The people I don't like can lick my nuts.

 

[Oxide]

gio....why are you worrying bud? The one's not worth responding to are to be left to themselves

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Let me quote a scripture from the bible altho it might be cliche.
Gen, 2:7
And jehova god proceeded to form the man out of dut and to blow into his nostrils the breath of life and the man became a liveing soul. 8 Further more god planted a garden in Eden toward the east and there he put the man he had formed. 15 And jehove god proceeded to tke the man and settle him in he garden of eden to cultivate it and to take care of it. 18 And jehove god went on to say "It is not good fro the man t o continue by himself, i am going to make a helper as a compliment of him."

From this I garnerd that man was riginally made to dominate and conqure the earth and subdue it. Not in the heartless manner it is done today but with love. Then women came into the picture in order to help with his progressions. So with this i mind I say never make women your prime goal in life they should be as an accesory to spice it up as you may. But instead go on couqureing and subdueing, there are lots of things that are harder to conqure in life than women (IMO they are easy, they just play hard). Find hobbies, things that you love to do beside what you are obligated to do fro survival, like work, Bodybuilding, gameing, sports, painting , music, your life should be so intresting that u don't have time to consider them unless you actually meet one. IMO we can do without women, they cannot do without us. Adam had the obligation to teach and show his woman the path, but insted he lapsed and she sined (altho she had help). Then instead of trying to rectify the situation, he dicided to willfully sin because he could not stand the site of looseing his woman, he did what he already knew was wrong and god could have rectified the situattion had he not sinned too. This my friends is a classical state of pusssy whip, what happens when the woman takes the lead in a relationship.

Hope my post enlightened some.

-good luck and Prosper-

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

P.S. Also all DJ's should read the bible IMO. Besides being a good knoledge tool, i also enlightens on the facts and the real purpose of life, try it.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Last week on a first date with this girl named Nicole, everything feels flat, kind of boring and frustrating. Was this worth all the trouble? In my book, it wasn't.

This weekend, I have a date with a girl named Kate. I don't know her very well at all, so God knows how that will go. She seems decent. I'd say she's maybe a "7", but she's smart and we seem to have a lot in common. But the bottom line in all of this is that I'm wondering what the hell I'm doing here at all.

I'm not the kind of guy who wants a string of meaningless one-time stands and empty short-term flings. But long term relationships and marriage don't really appeal to me at all either right now.

I think to myself, best-case scenario, I end up liking Kate and she likes me. What then? I mean, I'm basically not in any kind of mind-set to have a relationship right now.

So where do I go from there? It seems like I'm just kind of going through the motions, and I'm not really FEELING anything. I've got my second "first date" in two weeks in a few days, but I'm not nervous, I'm not excited. I'm not anything. Anyone else get like that?

You're simply not attracted to her! Isn't that?

 

[diplomatic_lie]

The problem is you guys are putting too high expectations. You want women to be beautiful, smart, caring, non-golddigging, and perfect.

If you aim too high, you're going to be waiting for a long time. And what if that woman doesn't like you? Or gets killed in a fiery helicopter attack?

My philosophy is just to have fun, and appreciate what's thrown at you. (And to have a trophy on my arm - admit it, that's what 90% of people want).

I've dated gold diggers (and even became great friends with one after breaking up), stupid women, shallow women, and women who are not "perfect" in my eyes. I'm doing it because I'm 20 years old, and in 10-15 years I'll have more pressing issues than women, so I am just enjoying what time I have.

 

[dietzcoi]

You should not date girls in danger of being killed in "fiery helicopter attacks" unless you are dating Iraqi women

Dietzcoi

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Re: Re: What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
You're simply not attracted to her! Isn't that?

Wow, with a statement THAT profound it's no wonder at all why you drug up a seven month old thread!