Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 44
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Last week on a first date with this girl named Nicole, everything feels flat, kind of boring and frustrating. Was this worth all the trouble? In my book, it wasn't.
This weekend, I have a date with a girl named Kate. I don't know her very well at all, so God knows how that will go. She seems decent. I'd say she's maybe a "7", but she's smart and we seem to have a lot in common. But the bottom line in all of this is that I'm wondering what the hell I'm doing here at all.
I'm not the kind of guy who wants a string of meaningless one-time stands and empty short-term flings. But long term relationships and marriage don't really appeal to me at all either right now.
I think to myself, best-case scenario, I end up liking Kate and she likes me. What then? I mean, I'm basically not in any kind of mind-set to have a relationship right now.
So where do I go from there? It seems like I'm just kind of going through the motions, and I'm not really FEELING anything. I've got my second "first date" in two weeks in a few days, but I'm not nervous, I'm not excited. I'm not anything. Anyone else get like that?
This weekend, I have a date with a girl named Kate. I don't know her very well at all, so God knows how that will go. She seems decent. I'd say she's maybe a "7", but she's smart and we seem to have a lot in common. But the bottom line in all of this is that I'm wondering what the hell I'm doing here at all.
I'm not the kind of guy who wants a string of meaningless one-time stands and empty short-term flings. But long term relationships and marriage don't really appeal to me at all either right now.
I think to myself, best-case scenario, I end up liking Kate and she likes me. What then? I mean, I'm basically not in any kind of mind-set to have a relationship right now.
So where do I go from there? It seems like I'm just kind of going through the motions, and I'm not really FEELING anything. I've got my second "first date" in two weeks in a few days, but I'm not nervous, I'm not excited. I'm not anything. Anyone else get like that?
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