"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what the hell am i doing in college

tarotale

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i finished my 1st year in UT finally... and this is a sad experience i am bout to tell. i had crush on this girl, n she actually told my friend that she would not mind dating me. i asked her number and she gave it to me after like 3 days i met her. honestly i think getting a number from a girl is so easy (no bragging).


i did not act like a needy afc by calling her or txting her all the time. i just tried about 3 times to hang out with her n she shut me down saying she was asleep, busy blah blah. finally i ask her out to eat, she says yes n i was to meet her at 6 but she didn show up. this pissed me off so i just completely stopped talking to her. didn say hi, didn really respond to whatever she said... this was a dumba$$ idea b/c now that i think, this behavior tells her that i am a boy not a man. btw, unfortunately i did not pick up on CF and others very well at then. now i am doing just at "ok, pretty good" level.


well, so one day she txted me when the exam was. she obviously knew when b/c the professor told us at the same day at lecture when we be having test. i did not reply so bitc*h called me. i didn get the call n like 5 min later i called her. she asked the test date and i told her and told her bye. if that happened now, i would ve said "hey babe the test is on xx/xx. i know you want to talk to me a lot, but i am busy, so call me later in few hrs". but i fvcked up n just told her bye. after that, it was over, she started fvcking 4 dudes in 3 nights, became a bicycle, so my friends and i call her public welfare lol. tell me what i did wrong and the etc of this story so i can improve bros:up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tarotale said:
i finished my 1st year in UT finally... and this is a sad experience i am bout to tell. i had crush on this girl, n she actually told my friend that she would not mind dating me. i asked her number and she gave it to me after like 3 days i met her. honestly i think getting a number from a girl is so easy (no bragging).


i did not act like a needy afc by calling her or txting her all the time. i just tried about 3 times to hang out with her n she shut me down saying she was asleep, busy blah blah. finally i ask her out to eat, she says yes n i was to meet her at 6 but she didn show up. this pissed me off so i just completely stopped talking to her. didn say hi, didn really respond to whatever she said... this was a dumba$$ idea b/c now that i think, this behavior tells her that i am a boy not a man. btw, unfortunately i did not pick up on CF and others very well at then. now i am doing just at "ok, pretty good" level.


well, so one day she txted me when the exam was. she obviously knew when b/c the professor told us at the same day at lecture when we be having test. i did not reply so bitc*h called me. i didn get the call n like 5 min later i called her. she asked the test date and i told her and told her bye. if that happened now, i would ve said "hey babe the test is on xx/xx. i know you want to talk to me a lot, but i am busy, so call me later in few hrs". but i fvcked up n just told her bye. after that, it was over, she started fvcking 4 dudes in 3 nights, became a bicycle, so my friends and i call her public welfare lol. tell me what i did wrong and the etc of this story so i can improve bros:up:
ROFL thats pretty lame IMO, i hope you can come up with something better than that.

I say dont even worry about it... they way i see it is everything happens for a reason. You probobly saved your self time and headache because that girl seems like a slut. I say move on and go after other girls ... you are in college you shouldnt be worrying about ONE girl
 

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Prodigy746 said:
ROFL thats pretty lame IMO, i hope you can come up with something better than that.

I say dont even worry about it... they way i see it is everything happens for a reason. You probobly saved your self time and headache because that girl seems like a slut. I say move on and go after other girls ... you are in college you shouldnt be worrying about ONE girl

i am not lol. hm, what would u have txted her instead? i think telling her u r ok with me but still playing on the hard to get side is pretty set. idk, give me some suggestions so i can learn
 
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