"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what the hell am i doing in college

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i finished my 1st year in UT finally... and this is a sad experience i am bout to tell. i had crush on this girl, n she actually told my friend that she would not mind dating me. i asked her number and she gave it to me after like 3 days i met her. honestly i think getting a number from a girl is so easy (no bragging).


i did not act like a needy afc by calling her or txting her all the time. i just tried about 3 times to hang out with her n she shut me down saying she was asleep, busy blah blah. finally i ask her out to eat, she says yes n i was to meet her at 6 but she didn show up. this pissed me off so i just completely stopped talking to her. didn say hi, didn really respond to whatever she said... this was a dumba$$ idea b/c now that i think, this behavior tells her that i am a boy not a man. btw, unfortunately i did not pick up on CF and others very well at then. now i am doing just at "ok, pretty good" level.


well, so one day she txted me when the exam was. she obviously knew when b/c the professor told us at the same day at lecture when we be having test. i did not reply so bitc*h called me. i didn get the call n like 5 min later i called her. she asked the test date and i told her and told her bye. if that happened now, i would ve said "hey babe the test is on xx/xx. i know you want to talk to me a lot, but i am busy, so call me later in few hrs". but i fvcked up n just told her bye. after that, it was over, she started fvcking 4 dudes in 3 nights, became a bicycle, so my friends and i call her public welfare lol. tell me what i did wrong and the etc of this story so i can improve bros:up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tarotale said:
i finished my 1st year in UT finally... and this is a sad experience i am bout to tell. i had crush on this girl, n she actually told my friend that she would not mind dating me. i asked her number and she gave it to me after like 3 days i met her. honestly i think getting a number from a girl is so easy (no bragging).


i did not act like a needy afc by calling her or txting her all the time. i just tried about 3 times to hang out with her n she shut me down saying she was asleep, busy blah blah. finally i ask her out to eat, she says yes n i was to meet her at 6 but she didn show up. this pissed me off so i just completely stopped talking to her. didn say hi, didn really respond to whatever she said... this was a dumba$$ idea b/c now that i think, this behavior tells her that i am a boy not a man. btw, unfortunately i did not pick up on CF and others very well at then. now i am doing just at "ok, pretty good" level.


well, so one day she txted me when the exam was. she obviously knew when b/c the professor told us at the same day at lecture when we be having test. i did not reply so bitc*h called me. i didn get the call n like 5 min later i called her. she asked the test date and i told her and told her bye. if that happened now, i would ve said "hey babe the test is on xx/xx. i know you want to talk to me a lot, but i am busy, so call me later in few hrs". but i fvcked up n just told her bye. after that, it was over, she started fvcking 4 dudes in 3 nights, became a bicycle, so my friends and i call her public welfare lol. tell me what i did wrong and the etc of this story so i can improve bros:up:
ROFL thats pretty lame IMO, i hope you can come up with something better than that.

I say dont even worry about it... they way i see it is everything happens for a reason. You probobly saved your self time and headache because that girl seems like a slut. I say move on and go after other girls ... you are in college you shouldnt be worrying about ONE girl
 

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Prodigy746 said:
ROFL thats pretty lame IMO, i hope you can come up with something better than that.

I say dont even worry about it... they way i see it is everything happens for a reason. You probobly saved your self time and headache because that girl seems like a slut. I say move on and go after other girls ... you are in college you shouldnt be worrying about ONE girl

i am not lol. hm, what would u have txted her instead? i think telling her u r ok with me but still playing on the hard to get side is pretty set. idk, give me some suggestions so i can learn
 
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