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what the hell am i doing in college

tarotale

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i finished my 1st year in UT finally... and this is a sad experience i am bout to tell. i had crush on this girl, n she actually told my friend that she would not mind dating me. i asked her number and she gave it to me after like 3 days i met her. honestly i think getting a number from a girl is so easy (no bragging).


i did not act like a needy afc by calling her or txting her all the time. i just tried about 3 times to hang out with her n she shut me down saying she was asleep, busy blah blah. finally i ask her out to eat, she says yes n i was to meet her at 6 but she didn show up. this pissed me off so i just completely stopped talking to her. didn say hi, didn really respond to whatever she said... this was a dumba$$ idea b/c now that i think, this behavior tells her that i am a boy not a man. btw, unfortunately i did not pick up on CF and others very well at then. now i am doing just at "ok, pretty good" level.


well, so one day she txted me when the exam was. she obviously knew when b/c the professor told us at the same day at lecture when we be having test. i did not reply so bitc*h called me. i didn get the call n like 5 min later i called her. she asked the test date and i told her and told her bye. if that happened now, i would ve said "hey babe the test is on xx/xx. i know you want to talk to me a lot, but i am busy, so call me later in few hrs". but i fvcked up n just told her bye. after that, it was over, she started fvcking 4 dudes in 3 nights, became a bicycle, so my friends and i call her public welfare lol. tell me what i did wrong and the etc of this story so i can improve bros:up:
 

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tarotale said:
i finished my 1st year in UT finally... and this is a sad experience i am bout to tell. i had crush on this girl, n she actually told my friend that she would not mind dating me. i asked her number and she gave it to me after like 3 days i met her. honestly i think getting a number from a girl is so easy (no bragging).


i did not act like a needy afc by calling her or txting her all the time. i just tried about 3 times to hang out with her n she shut me down saying she was asleep, busy blah blah. finally i ask her out to eat, she says yes n i was to meet her at 6 but she didn show up. this pissed me off so i just completely stopped talking to her. didn say hi, didn really respond to whatever she said... this was a dumba$$ idea b/c now that i think, this behavior tells her that i am a boy not a man. btw, unfortunately i did not pick up on CF and others very well at then. now i am doing just at "ok, pretty good" level.


well, so one day she txted me when the exam was. she obviously knew when b/c the professor told us at the same day at lecture when we be having test. i did not reply so bitc*h called me. i didn get the call n like 5 min later i called her. she asked the test date and i told her and told her bye. if that happened now, i would ve said "hey babe the test is on xx/xx. i know you want to talk to me a lot, but i am busy, so call me later in few hrs". but i fvcked up n just told her bye. after that, it was over, she started fvcking 4 dudes in 3 nights, became a bicycle, so my friends and i call her public welfare lol. tell me what i did wrong and the etc of this story so i can improve bros:up:
ROFL thats pretty lame IMO, i hope you can come up with something better than that.

I say dont even worry about it... they way i see it is everything happens for a reason. You probobly saved your self time and headache because that girl seems like a slut. I say move on and go after other girls ... you are in college you shouldnt be worrying about ONE girl
 

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Prodigy746 said:
ROFL thats pretty lame IMO, i hope you can come up with something better than that.

I say dont even worry about it... they way i see it is everything happens for a reason. You probobly saved your self time and headache because that girl seems like a slut. I say move on and go after other girls ... you are in college you shouldnt be worrying about ONE girl

i am not lol. hm, what would u have txted her instead? i think telling her u r ok with me but still playing on the hard to get side is pretty set. idk, give me some suggestions so i can learn
 
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