The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, I'm in HS, but you guys are much more experienced than the guys at that board, so I thought I'd ask you.
Over the past month I've been talking casually to this girl. She acted REALLY serious about things around me, hinting for me to ask her out, going out on dates, how she wanted a relationship, I was a great guy, blah blah blah. I'm talking SERIOUS IOIs.
I made out with her a few weeks ago during school, got a kiss at a school dance that weekend and a couple more kisses in between classes in the next couple of weeks. No big deal.
Spring break started last week, so I thought I'd actually go out with her for a change. I sent her an email before I left on a 4 day trip saying that we'll be playing basketball on a weekday. I didn't want to do anything serious, just feel things out and spend time with her a little. Yes, I know emails suck, but I didn't see her at school that day and I was leaving on my trip the next day.
Anyway. The next day she sends me an email back saying that "you're a great guy and everything, but I don't want you as anything but a friend anymore...I'm not ready for a bf" blah blah.
And right now I'm thinking wtf. I have no idea what happened. How many times do you make out with a chick, have her throwing serious IOIs your way, talking about "how she can't wait till she can go out with me" etc. and then tell you she just wants to be friends?
I don't particularly care especially about this girl, but I'm really off balance right now because I don't understand what happened. Mostly I want to figure that out...
P.S. She used to have a crush on my friend last year. He basically turned her down. She told me she was completely over him, but he asked her about us kissing at the dance last week, the day before she gave me the LJBF...so I don't know...maybe she was just putting on an act the entire time just to make him jealous? I dunno...
Over the past month I've been talking casually to this girl. She acted REALLY serious about things around me, hinting for me to ask her out, going out on dates, how she wanted a relationship, I was a great guy, blah blah blah. I'm talking SERIOUS IOIs.
I made out with her a few weeks ago during school, got a kiss at a school dance that weekend and a couple more kisses in between classes in the next couple of weeks. No big deal.
Spring break started last week, so I thought I'd actually go out with her for a change. I sent her an email before I left on a 4 day trip saying that we'll be playing basketball on a weekday. I didn't want to do anything serious, just feel things out and spend time with her a little. Yes, I know emails suck, but I didn't see her at school that day and I was leaving on my trip the next day.
Anyway. The next day she sends me an email back saying that "you're a great guy and everything, but I don't want you as anything but a friend anymore...I'm not ready for a bf" blah blah.
And right now I'm thinking wtf. I have no idea what happened. How many times do you make out with a chick, have her throwing serious IOIs your way, talking about "how she can't wait till she can go out with me" etc. and then tell you she just wants to be friends?
I don't particularly care especially about this girl, but I'm really off balance right now because I don't understand what happened. Mostly I want to figure that out...
P.S. She used to have a crush on my friend last year. He basically turned her down. She told me she was completely over him, but he asked her about us kissing at the dance last week, the day before she gave me the LJBF...so I don't know...maybe she was just putting on an act the entire time just to make him jealous? I dunno...
