"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What The Fvck Is This Sh*t?!

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Did I miss the memo saying that it's alright for half-naked guys to dance like retarded girls or is tectonik just some screwed up sociological phenomenon?

See here

And here

I honestly couldn't get through them both without laughing. The first time I ever saw someone doing tectonik in real life, I laughed my ass off until I fell off of the rock I was sitting on. It lasted a good 5 minutes.

I mean, my primal urges to punch these people in the face are barely suppressed by my laughter. I know that I've said that you should do whatever you want to without caring about what others think of you, but holy sh*t lol, some things just shouldn't be done.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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im pretty sure it originated in the gay scene in france.
 
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It takes work to be good at any type of dance, even the wierd fad ones like tek, wutang, or whatever other dances some niche group of the 21st century concocts.

If that's his scene, and he goes to electro parties and dances like that, he'll pull more tail than you. What's the point of bashing him?
 
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I can't really pay that out considering i do the Melbourne shuffle but it does look pretty gay :).

BTW, i strongly recommend not punching one of them in the face unless you want to get beaten up by a gay. It takes good strength, agility and a fit person to be good at techno dancing so in all likelihood they can probably beat up your fat self.
 
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personally I think krumping is gayer
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I looked at the video and got no reaction.
He's doing his thing and he seems happy doing it. So what is wrong?
 
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Flabbergasped? said:
It takes work to be good at any type of dance, even the wierd fad ones like tek, wutang, or whatever other dances some niche group of the 21st century concocts.

If that's his scene, and he goes to electro parties and dances like that, he'll pull more tail than you. What's the point of bashing him?
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the question is not if he's good, b/c obviously it takes some skill to be able to do that crap.

The real questions are

1) Can he make a living doing that

2) Who is going to employ him ?

3) Who is going to pay to see that crap.


Hence why he's posting youtube videos of it.
 
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Nope, dancing and especially raving is about self expression and fun. There are youtube videos of everything out there, i see no reason they have to be linked to a career.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Technoviking is my god.
 
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Wiesman44 said:
the question is not if he's good, b/c obviously it takes some skill to be able to do that crap.

The real questions are

1) Can he make a living doing that

2) Who is going to employ him ?

3) Who is going to pay to see that crap.


Hence why he's posting youtube videos of it.
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Consider this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2tJbkPZ9W8. In Korea:

1) Yes, I've heard 60 grand a year
2) Battles, exhibitions, dance shows, commercials
3) Hot korean girls.

Who says it's not the same in France?

Stop hatin' because you can't dance. Any dancer would appreciate the dedication and skill and pay their respects. The haters are probably fistpumpers at the clubs.
 
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Korea's got some of the best B-Boy crews in the world though. it's turned into something of a national pride thing over there

a few of my friends are professional dancers here in LA. between teaching and performing, they make enough to live comfortably and travel the world. it's cutthroat as hell though. other dancers always trying to bite your sht and get you to teach them moves. hardly any authenticity - just a bunch of competitive artists tryign to build their resumes

and my last post still holds. krumping is gayer than all of that
 
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Flabbergasped? said:
Stop hatin' because you can't dance. Any dancer would appreciate the dedication and skill and pay their respects. The haters are probably fistpumpers at the clubs.
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Actually dude, I can dance. I mostly do freestyle boogaloo and hip hop, but I still think tectonik is retarded.
 
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