what the freak? the new tinder etiquette?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan

Jul 26, 2016

Korrupt said:
For a lot of us busy guys, it's the only way to have a chance at meeting people. Most of my lays have been from dating sites/apps.

Me too...I have had up to six dates in a week from match. I get a few off tinder and bumble.

I'm at a point where I have two plates I see on the weekend and one or two new girls during the week.

If you work it you can succeed on old. Have good pictures and ask for a date straight away.

Thin thing is you have to find the method that works for you. Day/night game, social network or whatever. Find your niche and work it.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.