what the freak? the new tinder etiquette?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan

Jul 26, 2016

Korrupt said:
For a lot of us busy guys, it's the only way to have a chance at meeting people. Most of my lays have been from dating sites/apps.

Me too...I have had up to six dates in a week from match. I get a few off tinder and bumble.

I'm at a point where I have two plates I see on the weekend and one or two new girls during the week.

If you work it you can succeed on old. Have good pictures and ask for a date straight away.

Thin thing is you have to find the method that works for you. Day/night game, social network or whatever. Find your niche and work it.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.