"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what - the - fock ? crazy girl!

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I asked my gf:confused: what would she do if i cheat her.

"nothing" she said... :confused:
why? I asked
because I already have been cheated before and I would not cry all over or feel bad, or loose time thinking why he did it.. ohh my god... why??? (sarcastic).. Because that is not a big deal.

ho ho ho said Santa Claus, here is a gift to you, a special NEXT for xmas.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
I asked my gf:confused: what would she do if i cheat her.

"nothing" she said... :confused:
why? I asked
because I already have been cheated before and I would not cry all over or feel bad, or loose time thinking why he did it.. ohh my god... why??? (sarcastic).. Because that is not a big deal.

ho ho ho said Santa Claus, here is a gift to you, a special NEXT for xmas.
In "girl-speak" that means "Cheat on me and I'll go screw your best friend."
 

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Re: Re: what - the - fock ? crazy girl!

Originally posted by Wyldfire
In "girl-speak" that means "Cheat on me and I'll go screw your best friend."
hey WF, how you doing?
 

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Re: Re: Re: what - the - fock ? crazy girl!

Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
hey WF, how you doing?
Good...how are you? Since I responded to your thread, now you gotta respond to mine...in fairness and all. :D
 
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