"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what the f*** she wants?

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hi
um an student and also i work for a small company
um tight on time and to be a complete f***tard i don't own a smartphone so no viber no whatsapp even i don't check my FB
2 years ago i met a girl i liked her a lot asked for her number she instead asked me for my number and said i'll call you and she did, i started texting her and always it was me who texted her and started the conv. i can't recall even a single time that she texted me anyhow i asked her out 2 or 3 times bul*** excuse was what i got i continued texting her for 2 more weeks and then i stopped .
a few weeks ago out of the blue after almost 2 years she texted me some funny **** i answered her text and it started again but this time it was two sided texting.before i make my mind to whether ask her out again or not she called me and asked me to join her and bunch of her friends to go out and have some fun, i went and i soon felt a more than usual friendliness between she and one of her guy friends.we went out two or 3 times more like that and i could clearly see that all the time.until 2 days ago she texted me and asked me to go with them again!!! i said yes and on that foot then we started a dramatic conversation through text which took almost til 4 o'clock AM and i think i did a very cheap act i don't know why maybe cause i was tired anyhow i said you know i have a very different feeling for you than others and she replied :can i give no comments on that?? well its late good night see you tomorrow sleep tight."
again tomorrow the problem i mentioned before happened and she and the guy friend started talking very friendly and funny as it may sound in all these occasions that we have been out she tries to avoid me as much as possible.
so i went home a bit confused then i got my friend to check their status on viber and he last night called me saying this:"hey bro Ur lady is on then the dude comes then they are on for 3 or 4 hours and then they sign out with 10 min after one another i think they are definitely chatting 24/7."
so i don't know if she's with that dude why this childish act of conspiracy.to make the matter woth i really like her.
any how i don't know what to do ask her out again?just cut the cra**and delete her phone number?or try to open my mind to seek more reasons?
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and guys excuse poor english um french.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She is an attention ***** and you're feeding her addiction.
Delete her number and forget about her. If she was romantically interested in you, she would've made it obvious by now.
As Judge Nismo would say, "Your princess is in another castle". She's lost to you, move on and game other women.
 

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Tictac said:
This is what Game is for.

Where is yours?
and i didn't quite get the point there.

Tictac said:
Who cares? Worry about what you want. Read the DJ Bible and comb these boards.
thanks dude uma do that

Who cares? Worry about what you want. Read the DJ Bible and comb these boards.

Tictac said:
She is an attention ***** and you're feeding her addiction.
Delete her number and forget about her. If she was romantically interested in you, she would've made it obvious by now.
As Judge Nismo would say, "Your princess is in another castle". She's lost to you, move on and game other women.
i think ur right but she shouldn't have messed with me.there is that cra%%y guy she can have all the attention in the world she wants
 

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hey this is the last episode i had with her
she texted me started chatting she said :"it's so funny every time we are together i feel a great resemblance between you and tom considering me as jerry". now imagine my face grow up girl anyhow
so i said:"heh who's the dog then"
she goes:"don't worry the dog should be the one who makes you indignant and bother you,i can get myself a lot of whom"
so i said:"you know if i was tom i would have stopped working with you ,you don't wanna play tom and jerry ,you wanna play DOG and jerry and just keep tom for rainy weather."
she said:"you know, it's too late to speak about these things ,everyone should just pursue one's own destiny"
i said well good night then
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you know, now that i have come to think of it i've completely ignored the golden rules mentioned in this site.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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