"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what the f*** she wants?

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hi
um an student and also i work for a small company
um tight on time and to be a complete f***tard i don't own a smartphone so no viber no whatsapp even i don't check my FB
2 years ago i met a girl i liked her a lot asked for her number she instead asked me for my number and said i'll call you and she did, i started texting her and always it was me who texted her and started the conv. i can't recall even a single time that she texted me anyhow i asked her out 2 or 3 times bul*** excuse was what i got i continued texting her for 2 more weeks and then i stopped .
a few weeks ago out of the blue after almost 2 years she texted me some funny **** i answered her text and it started again but this time it was two sided texting.before i make my mind to whether ask her out again or not she called me and asked me to join her and bunch of her friends to go out and have some fun, i went and i soon felt a more than usual friendliness between she and one of her guy friends.we went out two or 3 times more like that and i could clearly see that all the time.until 2 days ago she texted me and asked me to go with them again!!! i said yes and on that foot then we started a dramatic conversation through text which took almost til 4 o'clock AM and i think i did a very cheap act i don't know why maybe cause i was tired anyhow i said you know i have a very different feeling for you than others and she replied :can i give no comments on that?? well its late good night see you tomorrow sleep tight."
again tomorrow the problem i mentioned before happened and she and the guy friend started talking very friendly and funny as it may sound in all these occasions that we have been out she tries to avoid me as much as possible.
so i went home a bit confused then i got my friend to check their status on viber and he last night called me saying this:"hey bro Ur lady is on then the dude comes then they are on for 3 or 4 hours and then they sign out with 10 min after one another i think they are definitely chatting 24/7."
so i don't know if she's with that dude why this childish act of conspiracy.to make the matter woth i really like her.
any how i don't know what to do ask her out again?just cut the cra**and delete her phone number?or try to open my mind to seek more reasons?
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and guys excuse poor english um french.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She is an attention ***** and you're feeding her addiction.
Delete her number and forget about her. If she was romantically interested in you, she would've made it obvious by now.
As Judge Nismo would say, "Your princess is in another castle". She's lost to you, move on and game other women.
 

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Tictac said:
This is what Game is for.

Where is yours?
and i didn't quite get the point there.

Tictac said:
Who cares? Worry about what you want. Read the DJ Bible and comb these boards.
thanks dude uma do that

Who cares? Worry about what you want. Read the DJ Bible and comb these boards.

Tictac said:
She is an attention ***** and you're feeding her addiction.
Delete her number and forget about her. If she was romantically interested in you, she would've made it obvious by now.
As Judge Nismo would say, "Your princess is in another castle". She's lost to you, move on and game other women.
i think ur right but she shouldn't have messed with me.there is that cra%%y guy she can have all the attention in the world she wants
 

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hey this is the last episode i had with her
she texted me started chatting she said :"it's so funny every time we are together i feel a great resemblance between you and tom considering me as jerry". now imagine my face grow up girl anyhow
so i said:"heh who's the dog then"
she goes:"don't worry the dog should be the one who makes you indignant and bother you,i can get myself a lot of whom"
so i said:"you know if i was tom i would have stopped working with you ,you don't wanna play tom and jerry ,you wanna play DOG and jerry and just keep tom for rainy weather."
she said:"you know, it's too late to speak about these things ,everyone should just pursue one's own destiny"
i said well good night then
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you know, now that i have come to think of it i've completely ignored the golden rules mentioned in this site.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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