"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what the f buddy rules?

Dubh

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is she allowed to stay the night at my house after i pump her it doesnt really bother me bcuz i get sleepy afterwards and what are some other guidelines?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shyguy32

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No "dates", just her coming up to have sex. I see no problem with her spending the night, but you have to keep the frequency of sex limited. Emotions tend to start getting involved if you do it too often. I say once every 2 weeks to once ever month if you really don't want to get emotions involved in the "releationships". you might be able to seperate them and you might not, and her the same. But why take the chance of one of you getting hurt?
 

SandHawk

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My fuck buddy used to spend the night after we did our thing together. We usually ended like 1 or 2 in the morning anyway(the sex lasted usually somewhere between 2 and 3 hours), so it made sense that she slept over as well. And we occasionally had sex again the morning too, because if she's there, why not take full advantage of it?

There are no rules for having a fuck buddy tho, you make the rules. But if you have sex with her twice a week, expect feelings to surface sooner or later. It's difficult to keep sex and feelings separated if you have sex that often(I had one girl over twice a week, sometimes even three times). She started buying me gifts and took me on dates.
 

thedude4242

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good information guys. if she is single and and F buddy just go ahead and do it. Id go from like 8 oclock to about 2-3 or from like 10 or 11 until 3-4 and then in the morning occassionaly when she stayed all night.
 
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