"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

what the f buddy rules?

Dubh

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2009
Messages
102
Reaction score
3
is she allowed to stay the night at my house after i pump her it doesnt really bother me bcuz i get sleepy afterwards and what are some other guidelines?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

shyguy32

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2005
Messages
151
Reaction score
5
Age
53
No "dates", just her coming up to have sex. I see no problem with her spending the night, but you have to keep the frequency of sex limited. Emotions tend to start getting involved if you do it too often. I say once every 2 weeks to once ever month if you really don't want to get emotions involved in the "releationships". you might be able to seperate them and you might not, and her the same. But why take the chance of one of you getting hurt?
 

SandHawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 1, 2009
Messages
592
Reaction score
16
Location
Amsterdam, Netherlands
My fuck buddy used to spend the night after we did our thing together. We usually ended like 1 or 2 in the morning anyway(the sex lasted usually somewhere between 2 and 3 hours), so it made sense that she slept over as well. And we occasionally had sex again the morning too, because if she's there, why not take full advantage of it?

There are no rules for having a fuck buddy tho, you make the rules. But if you have sex with her twice a week, expect feelings to surface sooner or later. It's difficult to keep sex and feelings separated if you have sex that often(I had one girl over twice a week, sometimes even three times). She started buying me gifts and took me on dates.
 

thedude4242

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2009
Messages
569
Reaction score
4
good information guys. if she is single and and F buddy just go ahead and do it. Id go from like 8 oclock to about 2-3 or from like 10 or 11 until 3-4 and then in the morning occassionaly when she stayed all night.
 
Top